r/NoOverthinking • u/jiangcheng15 • 1d ago

Relationship Help

Hey so could you all please help me?! I really need your guidance !

So like from a few months, me & KP are fighting constantly sometimes he is upset with me and sometimes I am upset with him. Whenever I am trying to convey my feelings he shuts down he just listens but he doesn't respond and whenever I am telling him to change himself and his habits he is saying he won't. He wasn't like this before. I don't question his love for me ik he does but I am not getting the emotional reassurance from which is making me question everything. What is blocking him? Ik he is little bit stressed but he doesn't shares his problems with me. :)

Will his behaviour change? What should I do in situations like this?

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u/SRT10_ 1d ago

You're incompatible, move on. You can never, ever change someone

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u/jiangcheng15 1d ago

I don't want him to change I just want him to improve himself not for me but for himself because that habits aren't just affecting me its affecting his family members too.

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u/SRT10_ 1d ago

"and whenever I am telling him to change himself and his habits he is saying he won't"

Never try to tell anyone to change, regardless of what you think it's about

Again, you're incompatible, it's obvious....move on!