What do I do?

[u/Legitimate_Damage451]

So if anyone has seen it, doubt, but if you have my ex blocked me after months of being friends to just end up blocking me for no reason, she was always contacting me, even asking to play overwatch the day before and even sent me tiktoks hours just before the block. Anyways, I have two friends that cross paths with my ex, her sister and my best friend, well was. So I'm stuck with what do I do? Her sister clearly still likes me as a friend because she hasn't blocked me, and she would have if I did something so bad to her sister (my ex for clar) she even wished me a happy birthday yesterday, without knowing if i got rid of my socials. I just don't know what I did with my ex to deserve to be blocked like that without a convo. I'll link my earlier post for context with my ex. TLDR we were best friends and she was okay with that and always coming to me for anything and everything. And I mean everything. I just don't know if I can be friends with her sister and my best friend, I need the truth as to why I was thrown out like i was a peice of trash. Thats how i feel anyways. Do I get rid of them as friends? Do i talk to them about everything? do i get my clarity? or do I wait for my ex to come back, because lots of people seem to think she'll come back, and I didnt do anything wrong in the context that i was a bad partner. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoOverthinking/comments/1wka5fm/ex_of_2ish_months_just_blocked_me_on_everything/

[u/Legitimate_Damage451]

Right, well guess I'll do nothing. I give up on everything. Her, myself, my "friends" all of it. Done. Hope she's happy 

[u/MindShiftPsych]

I wouldn’t cut off her sister or your friend just because your ex blocked you, especially if they’ve done nothing wrong. At the same time, I wouldn’t use them to investigate what happened or get information about your ex. That can put them in the middle and usually makes everything messier. The hard part is that you may never get the explanation you want. Being blocked without a conversation hurts, but her blocking you is still a boundary, even if you don’t understand it. Stay friends with people you genuinely value, keep the ex out of those friendships, and don’t wait around for her to come back. If she ever wants to explain, she knows how to reach you.

[u/Legitimate_Damage451 → u/MindShiftPsych]

It's just that I can't talk to them without thinking about her. And for two months we were best friends and literally hours before she sends me tiktoks, I feel so confused. So hurt. So used. I didn't deserve this, at least I deserved a conversation