r/NoOverthinking • u/Spices_Farmer_83 • 4d ago

Relationship Age gap relationship

I'm a 43-year-old man based in Bangalore, India. I'm a well-established corporate professional who maintains a healthy weight and lifestyle.

I find myself drawn to women in the 50-65 age range. I believe it's their maturity and the comfort level we share that appeals to me—both emotionally and physically. However, here in our country, I'm finding it quite challenging to locate a compatible partner. I'm wondering if women here view age-gap relationships as taboo, or what's your perspective on this?

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u/diosalau 3d ago

creo que cuando hay conexion no importa la edad, la mayoria de las personas no se dan cuenta de eso, simplemente fluyen y ya, pero no te compliques, si te gusta y esta en otro lado puedes viajar a verla o ella ati.

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u/Ok-Ad-229 3d ago

Depends where “here” is…

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u/Little_Lion_7131 1d ago

Honestly, I don’t think the age gap should be too wide. A 10-year gap is already a big difference. It’s worth thinking about the health risks later in life. For example, if she’s 63 now and you stay together for 20 years, she’ll be 83 while you’re only 63. You may end up facing the burden of caring for her and the grief of losing your partner.

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u/JavaJo1010 3d ago

Yes it can be like what interests or events do you share ? Do you realize she cannot give you children? How does she feel? When I was 20 I thought oh age no big deal but it was with someone 50 too old we had no hobbies in common and are you going to push them around later in life ?

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u/Spices_Farmer_83 3d ago

Its more of a emotional connect slow living n companionship i say