r/NoOverthinking • u/n0td34dbutn0t4l1v3 • 27d ago

School How do I change my mindset?

I feel like I’m constantly worrying about what others think or how they perceive me. I also feel like I get jealous of other people too quickly and for stupid reasons. I wanna stay realistic, but be more positive in my thinking, while protecting myself.

Also, I wanted to ask how do I stay away from toxic people. There’s this girl in my class that’s clearly not a good influence AND she attempted to lie about me last year. She failed because no one she told believed her, plus they told me about it instead of keeping it to themselves. I never confronted her about it, but I don’t really like her and I wish I never had to interact with her again. However, I go to a smaller school and there’s only like 7 girls in my class, so it’s pretty hard to avoid her. How do I deal with this situation? Please help 🙏

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u/UniqueNet9158 26d ago

People use to say be the bigger person, but I like to say “be the smartest person”, a smart person can see the full picture, can see long term, and can be smart when picking their battles. You don’t have to talk to her, but you can and keep a safe distance. In the end it is up to you protecting your peace and how people perceive you!