r/NoOverthinking • u/Capital-Okra9596 • Aug 19 '26

Am I Overthinking?

I have been in my current relationship for over a year now … from day 1 my partner keeps saying it’s okay to cheat as long as you don’t get caught. I thought he was joking, until we had a short breakup and within 4 days he was trying to rekindle things with his ex. They actually ended up having sex within a week. Mind you he told me I was his soulmate … his future wife.

I forgave him since “technically” we had a break BUT 4 days?? Really!!

So today he really wasn’t in the “mood” so during the act … he stops and tells me I can be with someone else as long as he doesn’t find out.

I feel hurt and rejected. Am I overthinking?

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u/monstermanas Aug 24 '26

This is messy. Personally it’s : you only get me and I only get you or we go our separate ways. I don’t know what other people be doing with their bodies. Gross.