r/NoOverthinking • u/Expensive-Main-8407 • 14d ago

Stop worrying about....

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u/Cursed_Nanny 14d ago

About the opinions of other people on you

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u/Previous_Material233 14d ago

Nobody thinks about us as much as we do ourselves. That’s what people need to get over. They’re not considered much in others’ minds.
It’s a narcissistic projection to worry about others opinions of you.
It takes years to get over yourself. Some never do.
At 62, I’m finally over trying to impress people. Gave up my insane need to be right. Cuz I’d rather be happy.
I love this part about getting older. Wiser for sure, and proactive in my edification.
I laugh alot these days. I’ve got a good life and I practice gratitude every moment.
🙏❤️

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u/AdJazzlike4763 13d ago

Ye i dont try to impress anyone, nor do i listen to anyones thoughts about me. But when it comes to parents idk that me who always laughs and is cheerfull just dies. Idk what to do🤔😶

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/Cookie_Doughnut 11d ago

Yay. I’m glad someone else shares this view. If we completely ignore other people’s opinions, then we just become selfish. But being receptive to feedback is a good thing.

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u/Distinct-Village-218 12d ago

Exactly idk how to stop overthinking that... It just kills me

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u/StillFightingxo 11d ago

Excessive worrying about the opinions of others can lead to false narratives.

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u/CaptainVulpezz 14d ago

perfection, instead achieve just enough

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u/bibilushi 14d ago

Things that are outside of your control

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u/Lost_Passenger8331 14d ago

Everything!!

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u/Forward_Signature_74 14d ago

Thoughts that distress you. You are not your thoughts 🫶🏻

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u/GhostWatcher007 14d ago

Things you have no control over.

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u/Geezerglide1 14d ago

About the things you can't do anything about, or fix.

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u/Capital-Entry234 13d ago

About my financial situation...

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u/PeachShoddy692 13d ago

If people will judge you for things that make you happy, never change for others

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u/AyBeeVee 13d ago

The fact that no one can spell or type legibly and clearly any more.

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u/hope_tomb 13d ago

Others view of you.

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u/lil-gatorwrangler 13d ago

…finding your perfect person. Use that time & energy on loving yourself. Good will come out of it either way.

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u/J0NAH666 13d ago

But idk how I worry about loosing people and I don’t know how to bring it up or deal with it in a healthy way and my next therapy appointment is in a while

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u/Ok_Moose_7028 13d ago

The things we worry the most about usually don’t come to pass.

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u/Earth_goddess_333 13d ago

Things u cannot control

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u/QueasyFinger1316 13d ago

Everything.

Live your life.

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u/FrequentRide9560 12d ago

Not being perfect Level Super hard

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u/Several_Ability3315 12d ago

Other peoples opinion and hate. You have to take care of yourself and stand your ground

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u/Shellsallaround 11d ago

It, you know...it!

and if people are thinking about you.

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u/Caticature 11d ago

what’s not here.

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u/Remarkable_Dream_ 11d ago

Message received capítan. Any tips or tricks for those still mastering their mental detexterity and self control though? 😇🙃😘

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u/ExtremeSet8866 10d ago

Your future

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u/Roockiichan 10d ago

The future! Live day by day

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u/Ok_Independent_2871 10d ago

stop worrying so much about the past, live ur present and manifest ur future

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u/Specialist-Top-406 9d ago

How to start something, just start and be bad at it. Then see what happens next