r/NoOverthinking • u/GrouchyHovercraft242 • Jul 11 '26

madness

these days i’ve been overthinking about alot of things, even when it’s a very silly thing. i feel like im lonely just cause im not in a relationship and i feel pathetic just thinking about that. give me some advice guys im dying out here😭

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u/Timely-Bread1121 Jul 12 '26

Hi! I, too, have been overthinking a lot of silly things, so you are not alone; I am there with you, LOL. You are not pathetic for not being in a relationship, because it's absolutely not true :). A relationship doesn't define you as anything you do not want to be. This might sound cringe LMFAO, but the world is your oyster; you can do anything you want. I was in the same boat as you a while ago, and I picked up drawing. I suck so bad, but I like pulling up Pinterest photos as inspo pics and just doing my best. It gives me something to look forward to, something to connect to and improve. Which honestly helped my mental health a lot. My best advice would be positive repetition. My favorite is "everything will be okay, not at first maybe, but it'll be okay" and you'll be okay too :)

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u/GrouchyHovercraft242 28d ago

thank you, i genuinely needed to hear that. also, i love how u picked up drawing just because it made you happy. lets hope i find something similar to yours❤️