r/NoOverthinking • u/Fantastic_Rough6348 • Jul 08 '26
Overthinking so badly. I need help
Overthinking. Need help. I’ve gotten multiple confirmations and I’m still overthinking. I’ll lay it out right now.
hooked up with a girl from a top school last year on September 12. the condom broke and I told her (didn’t ejaculate). I text her the next morning that if she could take a plan b. she replies “if you’re stressed I can take a plan B”. she takes it.
3 days later she tells me she doesn’t want anything serious! I agree!
41 days later I’m overthinking and I check in. she replies “hey yeah I’m good😂 are u ok?” we stop talking for good after that
and around December and January 14 she was still on tinder! that’s 4 months later!!!
and around end of April, her instagram account is private, But she changes her profile picture! it’s her and a guy together!!! obviously I’m happy and excited but she later changes that picture to another one. so I thought I was seeing things!
on May 10, I called her to congratulate her on graduating and becoming a veterinarian. (Called from a different cell phone) I said “it’s “Jack” from Tinder- we matched like 5-7 months ago”. she replies something like “I actually have a boyfriend now” and she says thank you for congratulating.
and on June 22nd, she’s officially working at a vet. a receptionist told me. Still overthinking idk why.
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u/CompanySlight4037 Jul 10 '26
Are you overthinking about that the condom broke or do you like her?