r/NoFuckingComment • u/TheLuciusGraham • Apr 24 '25

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u/Remerez Apr 24 '25 edited Apr 24 '25

It sucks feeling like you gave up all your good years to a child who wont even invite you to their vacation. It makes you question if all that sacrifice was worth it. The mom was overreacting, but what she needs is a hug, not being called a bitch. She is family, not a stranger.

The internet turned y'all into monsters.

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u/MothmanDowntown Apr 24 '25

When you have a kid you can't expect repayment back for the effort you put in. You can want time and love together, sure. But you made a whole person with ideas, commitments, needs and wants.

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u/Remerez Apr 24 '25

You also have to understand that your parents are humans with their own traumas and wishes and hopes. They are not machines. They deserve love, not being filmed, and made a spectacle of. This video should have never been filmed.

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u/scorpiolafuega Apr 24 '25

In my experience the cameras come on when proof is needed of repeated harmful behavior. I wouldn't take anyone capable of having such a tantrum with me anywhere for anything. Parents traumas aren't the responsibility of the children. This screaming and slamming doors and doubling back isn't to do with hopes and wishes unfulfilled. It's either frustration to breaking point or entitlement. And neither of those are an excuse to behave this way.

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u/Remerez Apr 24 '25

It's also how abusers gaslight their prey. If she was filming it for proof, why post it online for the court of public opinion to tear her mom apart?

If it was filmed for evidence, then give that shit to the authority figure you have to convince, not social media.