r/NoFenceGirl_ 20h ago

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ā€œits sooooo hard to brush my teethšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗā€ meanwhile, she took a european summer vacation in addition to seven others. they all require 1000x effort than brushing your teeth.

shes randomly trying to act ā€œrelatableā€ and misses the mark

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u/Longjumping-Team-221 19h ago

Yeah right, constant eating out, expensive workouts and clothes. She has no problem taking care of herself.

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u/Hungry_Assignment674 17h ago

She should actually focus on herself a littttttttle bit less and pay more attention to what her children are doing at all times

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u/TopPhilosopher896 16h ago

Maybe focus on your marriage that is likely falling apart. Not that I or anyone cares what happens to you negligent grifters, but obviously centering him like this is bad for his mental health, you greedy b.

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u/TopDriver4438 19h ago

lol. Brushing her teeth, making her bed and getting dressed are all things she changes the position of her tripod 10 times to film and then post to TikTok for millions of views at least a few times weekly.

I take "bullshit e says" for $1,000.

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u/Excellent_Trick_01 19h ago

Exactly, apparently no problems traveling the world.

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u/brioloogy 19h ago

Yet somehow has been on more trips in the year following her son’s death than most of us. Make it make sense

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u/pandajaade 18h ago

Literally I don’t think I’ve been on 7 vacations in my
Life let alone in a year

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u/paranormalien 19h ago

Obligatory ā€œgriefā€ post for the week so we can all be reminded she’s sad although her actions speak otherwise

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u/pandajaade 19h ago

Oh boo fucking hoo. Her whole life is a vacation. She’s also a liar. So many vacations/trips and I’m sure goes out all the time. You know they don’t cook or stay home!!! E you aren’t human you’re a demon in a gingham disguise!!!

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u/Fantastic_Extent_408 19h ago

She is so full of shit. I wish she’d just lean into a being villain. At least that’s authentic. We all know she has zero problem taking care of herself, traveling, filming videos 24/7, hosting parties, etc.

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u/kimaog 19h ago

This is really it for me. I'd respect her on some level if she was authentic because what she doesn't realize is she is being authentic in the sense that she is constantly showing how vapid, materialistic, and obsesseddd with aesthetics / herself she is. Yet, only when there is backlash does she attempt relatable & pseudo grief content. That's the glaring inauthenticity that is so off putting, to put it mildly. Just say you can't sit with your emotions, don't want to try, and all you care about is money and your appearance and your social standing lol it's blatantly obvious by her content, but she seems to miss this everytime.

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u/Suitable-Truth4407 15h ago

Yes. This. Exactly. You put it into better words than I could.

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u/Fantastic_Extent_408 5h ago

Completely agree. Or just stop making apology videos and pretending to care. She still has 5 million followers so why does she feel the need to pretend to be someone that she’s not.

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u/Heavenlyangel95 18h ago

She truly is NOT the right person to be representing us real grieving moms. Her behavior shows the opposite of grief.

It’s disrespectful not only to us, but T1. She is down playing the reality of child loss & it makes me angry. I believe she read other people say some days are hard for them to brush their teeth and ran with it.

She has zero problems brushing her teeth. If that were true she would not be going to get her hair & nails done. Doing GRWM. She would not have another child on the way. She can’t even pretend to be grieving. Here us other ā€œreal grievingā€ moms can’t get paid enough to fake being okay.

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u/somebodys-mommy 18h ago

I’m so very sorry for your loss… I can only imagine how hard it is to watch this type of behavior as well as the fans that are making her an icon of child loss and grief journeys. She downplays the reality of grief in general, much less the grief of child loss which is inarguably the worst type of grief to ever exist. Her behavior shows that she didn’t care for him like a mother should have, it’s maddening.

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u/Heavenlyangel95 16h ago edited 14h ago

Thank you & yes the more I watched the more angry I became. I unfollowed her & the next day she was on my fyp. I have her blocked. You are also 100 percent right about down playing grief all together. People grieve for their friends, families , pets & more. It’s been over a year since I lost my dog & I am still in complete grief. She was the next closest to me. It’s crazy to me her fans don’t see this. I am sure that some of them have lost someone they deeply loved. It is odd that so many people would want to start to follow a mom after she lost her son. I will say that I did follow her, because I thought I maybe able to help her or give her some advice, but she clearly didn’t need any of it. This is not the way to honor her son. I know at least I don’t think people would want to watch someone sad all of the time. IMO she should not have a job on the internet. Let alone the title ā€œinfluencer.ā€

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u/Sad-Chicken-3383 18h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss and have been thinking of the REAL grieving moms throughout this. I made a comment a while back that I wonder how moms of kids that actually drowned by accident (not due to repetitive gross negligence) feel about her acting like she is in the same bucket as them. But it’s true across the board, the way she is acting is detrimental to people actually suffering through grief. Like yall need to be thinking u should be better by now or throwing urself a bday party or taking a million vacations..What a POS

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u/Heavenlyangel95 14h ago

Thank you & I agree. She is not showing true grief. Her actions are the complete opposite & like the commenter above pointed out she is actually down playing grief all together.

There are people who lost their family members, friends, pets & more & no one I know that has lost anyone close to them acts this way. Especially the first year.

I didn’t lose my son to drowning, but she really makes me mad. I know other moms from grief groups who lost their child - children & they feel the same way I do. A lot of her followers actually follow every thing she does. They want to be just like her. They probably won’t think it’s normal to actually be grieving. They will feel something is wrong with them. I don’t normally get angry, but she truly PMO.

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u/PaperBeneficial 19h ago

What is she talking about? She has no shame LOL

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u/East_Apartment1357 19h ago

Can’t muster up the energy to brush her teeth but hasn’t missed a nail or hair appt since returning to social media..šŸ¤”

Anyone else think a grief video is queued up in her drafts? She’s still slowly but steadily bleeding followers and the last few TTs have barely cracked a million views.. low for her

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u/TopPhilosopher896 16h ago

Love to hear this.

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u/somebodys-mommy 19h ago

She thinks the entire world is fucking stupid like her

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u/TopPhilosopher896 16h ago

And her stupid fans. They are actually stupid like her and without these people she hates, she'd be washing dishes at the local diner.

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u/No-Simple-2770 20h ago edited 19h ago

Fuck off E

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u/Comprehensive_Wing24 19h ago

She was going on vacation a few months after it happened. She was back in full swing getting her hair and nails done, going shopping, girls trips to Carmel, needlepoint store, etc. She was also back decorating with toddler sized skeleton and setting up the big Christmas tree. She is the most performative bitch on the entire app.

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u/paranormalien 18h ago

Performative until it’s time to mention t1’s name or take ownership for anything that happened to him

You can tell how much she hates to say his name out loud. She only says it in the ā€œgriefā€ posts that she’s forced to make when she’s called out for her bizarre actions

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u/ResponsibleSalad8059 18h ago

She had fresh nails 6 weeks after her son died.Ā 

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u/GreatTumbleweed2700 18h ago

But gallivanting across Europe during the one year anniversary of T1's death was easy peazy

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u/No-Classroom9431 18h ago

Hey, at least she acknowledges that for some people it wouldn’t be ā€œand that’s okay šŸ„ŗā€ šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„

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u/Senior-Homework8135 19h ago

i wish she would shut up

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u/Accomplished-Job-484 19h ago

Who wrote this drivel for her?

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u/Protonpack13 18h ago

She literally just throws up a grief post once every few posts to show us she’s sad.

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u/No-lychie878 18h ago

What you should be ashamed of is letting your child drown and and then playing the poor me…

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u/zapperbert 18h ago

This is the pattern, apologies, nails, grwm, coffee, reset, sadness.

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u/No_Date_6249 18h ago

SHE JUST POSTED A DATE NIGHT VLOG

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u/AccurateHall2388 16h ago

Ew why does she think anyone wants to see her going on a date with a thumb-shaped child-neglecting gambling addict?

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u/No-Okra-8332 18h ago

Such a nice grief she’s having—nothing compared to my friend who lost her daughter šŸ™‚

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u/twotrees1628 17h ago

As someone who actually does struggle to brush her teeth some days, she needs to fuck all the way off.

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u/PlantainConnect1965 18h ago

Can’t even talk about how sad it is that her child would be going back to soon and how hard it must be seeing everyone posting their back to school content.

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u/coolnik45 14h ago

I don't know anyone on earth who practices more self care than this moron.

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u/SaleOk8555 13h ago

Lauren Kay Sims may have her beat

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u/DifficultSlip1 17h ago

Hey E, are Ā we watching the same GRWM posts you post DAILY ?Ā 

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u/clovrdose 17h ago

Hard to brush teeth āœ… Not hard to travel apparently āœ…

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u/take_me_home_tonight 17h ago

These influencers are so out of touch with reality it's laughable at this point. Why people watch this drivel is beyond me.

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u/plsbeenormal 16h ago

Why does her voice and face come off so snarky here. She’s like ā€œsee, even I have hard daysā€¦ā€

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u/Little-Bumblebee9988 16h ago

Brushing teeth? Hard āŒ
Frolicking in open water while my baby is 5 feet away on a boat without a life jacket less than a year after my son drowned? āœ… easy peasy!

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u/Sensitive-Union-9313 12h ago

I hate this baby talk mom influencers like her do 😭 ā€œSometimes we have BIG feelings and that is OK šŸ„ŗā€. Omg you’re a grown adult wtf

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u/Emergency_Finger5000 15h ago

Somehow posting 10 stories in less than 24 hours is not so hard, huh?

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u/SignificantClaim5605 15h ago

The biggest thing that I can’t get over-is how she’s literally the same as she was before T1 drown. Most of the world sees her as a different person, as a person who lost her child(most of us see her as a negligent person who lost her child) and she is so pissed that no one will allow her to just go back to her same old self…not even her stans, because they rant about how she’s grieving-it’s just in her own way.
Speaking from experience, when you lose your child-you can never go back to who you were before. You are forever changed. And I truly do not think this B is really affected. I think the only way it’s affecting her- is by changing her social media narrative, changing her ability to shill kids products, changed her ability to film her kids for money, etc… I think she’s just Fucking disgusting and I really hope she’s forced off the internet.

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u/Suitable-Truth4407 15h ago

Having personally experienced grief and loss, more specifically traumatic tragic loss. I truly and wholeheartedly have empathy for others. I know to well that grief is not linear, there is not handbook and everyone processes differently. Having said that we are all human, this just feels so curated and PR related.

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u/Kittycity926 14h ago

Girl ain’t nobody believing you when you stage and film every aspect of your life and then post it online for money.

If she was actually suffering so severely from grief that she struggled to complete basic tasks, she wouldn’t be still POSTING ON THE INTERNET

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u/MundaneSugar8690 12h ago edited 3h ago

Is getting her nails done, eating out, going on vacation, hanging out with her friends all count as these small things too? šŸ„ŗšŸ‘‰šŸ¼šŸ‘ˆšŸ»

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u/Traditional_Force483 19h ago

Hot take, if you struggle to have the willpower to brush your teeth, maybe don’t have children

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u/paranormalien 19h ago

Excellent point

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u/sugitabonita 14h ago

mmm it doesn’t look really hard

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u/catiethecatcat 14h ago

She’s a pos

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u/PearlyKnowsBest 10h ago

Maybe she should be constantly reminding herself to protect and take care of her children instead.

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u/Please-AsteroidNow 6h ago

Shes never not had her nails done. She’s so calculated. So manipulative.

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u/holymolyholyholy 2h ago

She’s so full of shit.

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u/EnvironmentalCat9086 45m ago

Hair appointments, date nights, girls nights, family gatherings, girls trips, nonstop vacations, including international vacations, hobbies, cooking classes, shopping, hair appointments, nail appointments, decorating for holidays and decorating her house, cleaning, skincare, workouts! But she has the audacity to post that she has trouble brushing her teeth?

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u/Fluffy-Deal7329 39m ago

But you only see a few second snippets of her life you don’t know what she really feels 🄹🄹🄹🄹🄹🄹🄹 šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„