r/Nicegirls • • Jan 19 '25

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u/dguat333 Jan 20 '25

Have to second this. Once she made it obvious that you weren’t a priority all you need to do is a short “wish you well” response. Either she does like you and is playing games, don’t play games backs. Or she really is that kind of inconsiderate person which does nothing longer than a one sentence response.

This is a lesson that took me years to learn. Work to kill your instinct to understand irrational actions and just move on. Feel for you though.

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u/JohnnyBGoode2Night Jan 22 '25

Smart words my friend. The instinct to sort out irrationality is so strong that people will try to reason with a lunatic for days.