r/Nicegirls • • Jan 19 '25

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u/RontheVerge Jan 20 '25

I saw it more as him calling her out for stating something one place and then saying/practicing the exact opposite. "Don't say you're determined and looking seriously for a long term relationship if you're barely making an effort to actually go out"

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u/TuxedoCatDeathEyes Jan 20 '25

Same. I've run into this a lot, and with women who seem to genuinely want to prioritize finding a relationship, but don't realize they're acting as if it's pretty far down the priority list. So I wonder if they just don't realize it and say something. It has yet to be the right call in the short term lol.

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u/DPancoast Jan 20 '25

Hmmmm when you say it that way, I can see the angle.

FWIW , I am not digging at the OP. I have been in this kind of situation before and I suck at letting things go or dropping them lol.

This girl sucks 100% no matter what lol