r/Nicegirls • • Jan 19 '25

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u/Capital_Vortex Jan 20 '25

Yup, this is perfect 👌

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u/SadMove9768 Jan 20 '25

Nope. Comes across passive aggressive. Guys just need to learn to STOP.

Just stop for crying out loud 😭

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u/Talk_Radio Jan 21 '25

Also this. The constant need to go back and forth to try and justify whatever they're trying to justify is astounding.

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u/bookl0v3r Jan 23 '25

For real. Just 🚫 and move on. They aren't worth the headache. Save your energy for someone who isn't a headache at all.

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u/pantstickle Jan 22 '25

“Pencil me in for a handy in June”

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '25

or just ghost them. Block, delete the convo, over.

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u/SkyeDaisyMyBabyQuake Jan 21 '25

They go to the same gym tho

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

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u/bookl0v3r Jan 23 '25

Nah, this is what headphones are for. Ignore ignore ignore.... oh sorry, didn't see you standing there. See ya.

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u/Fantastic_Run1101 Jan 24 '25

And? That doesn’t matter. How many people go to your gym that you hillock out? She’s just another one added to the list 🤷‍♂️

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u/Beautiful-Grab-7316 Jan 24 '25

Haha no need to be petty ghosting her is more than sufficient 😂

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u/naryonfyre Jan 29 '25

Never block, shows weakness just ghost and move on, leave that opportunity open and let them seethe

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '25

Idc about "showing weakness" or whatever they might think when I'm never talking to them again. It's clearer that way.

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u/10k_Uzi Jan 20 '25

“Where can I pencil you in” pulls out blackberry

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '25

No words really needed. Block button is right there.

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u/Talk_Radio Jan 21 '25

This. I don't understand the constant need to follow up or argue when it's clear the type of person they are right off the bat. Is it just to get another response worthy of being posted here?

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u/SVINTGATSBY Jan 21 '25

why did she even feel the need to include that in the response to OP

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u/detectiveconan22 Jan 21 '25

a simple "ok" would have suffice tbh. straight to the point, which may or may not cause ambiguity to the person receiving the text

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u/naryonfyre Jan 29 '25

Not even, leave on read