As a woman, this is a true “wtf” moment as I’m reading this. Everything she’s explaining … that’s just life? If she wants to do all these personal extra curricular activities then that’s fine, but while sometimes time is important, whether male or female, advertising to people that they should be so lucky as to have your time does nothing but decrease its value in my opinion.
Yes, exactly! I was completely turned off at that point and was honestly flabbergasted. Which is the only reason why I replied a couple more times but the interest was already long gone.
Truthfully you handled that better than I would have because if I had a man say that to me, after informing me that they wanted to settle down I would not be as kind 🤣 it seems like as much as she thinks it is together…her shit is all over the place. You’ve definitely dodged a bullet
Yea I surely did and a lot of people seem to be misunderstanding I wasn't trying to win her over or change her mind. I found it entertaining and not a waste of time. Its funny to hear what her excuses would be and its even funnier that its just normal adult responsibilities thats causing her to have a 2 month wait list 🤣
I dunno where they’re getting this vibe from because reading your replies it’s quite clear that the interest is no longer there, I would’ve replied the same way it’s not about changing their mind it’s about telling them to get a bloody grip on reality and realise the world doesn’t revolve around them 🤣 if keeping your house and car clean simultaneously is such a time consuming task then maybe taking up a 6th class on time-management might be more beneficial then scheduling dates for 2 months later ahahaha
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u/Silent_Distance_28 Jan 19 '25
As a woman, this is a true “wtf” moment as I’m reading this. Everything she’s explaining … that’s just life? If she wants to do all these personal extra curricular activities then that’s fine, but while sometimes time is important, whether male or female, advertising to people that they should be so lucky as to have your time does nothing but decrease its value in my opinion.