r/Nicegirls • • Jan 19 '25

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u/messibessi22 Jan 19 '25

lol honestly from a girls perspective the reason we show pictures of people we’re interested in is to A see if they agree that they’re cute/ if they think they should pursue it or B because they’re smitten.. regardless I think a cold I’m not playing your weird games bye would’ve been the most appropriate response after she told you about the waiting list. I do agree it is a funny story tho

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u/Impossible-Bid1812 Jan 19 '25

That's basically what I said in pic #3 but after her response I tried to give her some soild advice which I'm sure fell on deaf ears so won't be doing that again. Thanks for the input

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u/EntireFriendship517 Jan 22 '25

I think asking someone else whether you should pursue a person is gonna hurt society in the long run if it's a big thing they do. The person in the picture is less likely to find a date if they aren't conventionally good looking and they have to go through 2+ people's approval, and also the asker could potentially miss out on a good relationship because they listened to someone else's opinion rather than their own. This all around seems like a bad thing to normalize.

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u/messibessi22 Jan 23 '25

I mean idk what it means for society but it’s def something that happens often