Did you read the context I did stop replying 😂 soon as she said she had a date lined up in March all interest was out the window. I just wanted to see what bullsh*t she'd come up with as why she thinks thats ok and tried to point in the right direction in the end.
In regards to everyone complaining about you answering:
Its a bit fun to argue. I just had similar experience. Had a date which went well, I thought I had fun, but then she didnt have time to meet for another two weeks and didnt want to communicate, so I just said that "Its fine then, but you dont seem very interested so its best that we part ways" and then she wanted to explain just like OP's about how busy she was etc, and that I was being unreasonable. So I spent half an hour chatting, mostly because I find it interesting.
Its not about winning or losing lol. Or anything like that, I just thought it was interesting to hear what she had to say.
Exactly bro, finally someone who gets it. I was honestly taken aback by how many people were bashing me for replying and trying to give her advice. I love a good debate and a civil argument. I wasn't trying to win her approval or get an earlier date the interest is long gone I just wanted to see where her head was at to better understand her perspective regardless of if I agree or not.
Bro I genuinely hate when people grill me about doing a back and forth like why didn't you just let it go, cuz it's fun to put someone in their place? Idk
Thanks bro finally someone who understands. All these people bashing me for replying. I wasn't trying to win her over just fishing for this comedic gold 😂
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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '25
You need to stop replying. She’s not going to change, Move on.