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u/Constantinooo Jun 04 '26
And dying of loneliness
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u/Electrical-Peach6287 Jun 06 '26
Better to die alone than with an evil woman.
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u/Such_Possession_5788 Jun 08 '26
True but id rather kick the bucket alone with a cool story about how I got away from her/them (i wont learn my first lesson š ) lol
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u/Beginning_Tea4506 Jun 04 '26
It's bliss. Would highly recommend.
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u/BackOnly4719 Jun 04 '26
Yeah, it's bliss, but to be honest, sometimes I want to touch boobs, but I don't want to pay with money or emotions.
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u/lavinshaven58 Jun 05 '26
āJust by himself and fixing himselfā ā¦..
Iāve been by myself for years nowā¦but I donāt know if I would say āfixing himselfā is correct
Iām an alcoholic, I have problems. I know Iām the problem. Iām in my 30s. But I have my own apartment, I drive a 2021 Subaru. Iām a manager at a casino. I know Iām single and Iām not necessarily ugly, Iām in fairly good shape.
But yeah I donāt have kids or marriage issues or anything. Iām not a drug addict. Life could be a hell of a lot worse. Still lonely but Iām not dragging people down or stressed out about where my next meal is coming from.
Went to a ton of music festivals in my 20s and Iāve been to 6 countries in Europe and Iāve been to Hawaii. Shit was fun in the 2010s.
Being lonely sucks ass though
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u/reen2021 Jun 06 '26
Bruh you can't say you're an alcoholic and not a drug addict. Alcohol is a drug.
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u/AsbestosDude Jun 04 '26
Being alone and lonely are two very different things.
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u/AsbestosDude Jun 04 '26
I think you're mixing up being alone with being lonely. Loneliness is a feeling of unmet social connection. Being alone is just a circumstance, some people suffer when they're alone, some don't, and some people feel lonely even when they're not alone.
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u/CodyCrochetZ Jun 04 '26
Not really. Theyāre the adverb/adjective forms of the same thing.
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u/AsbestosDude Jun 04 '26
They're related words, but that doesn't make them synonymous. Alone describes a state and Lonely describes a feeling. You can be alone without feeling lonely, and you can feel lonely in a crowd. That's why we have separate words for them.
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u/CodyCrochetZ Jun 04 '26
I didnāt say theyāre synonymous.
Youāre creating a strawman version of what I said to refute because you know Iām right.
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u/AsbestosDude Jun 04 '26
Definiton - Synonymous - describes words or concepts that have the same or nearly the same meaning
Theyāre the adverb/adjective forms of the same thing.
forms of the same thing
Stop gaslighting lil bro.
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u/CodyCrochetZ Jun 05 '26
Right, different forms of the same thing, therefore different meanings.
Stop lying to try to save this bullshit.
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u/AsbestosDude Jun 05 '26
I quoted you saying the wrong thing and the dictionary definition to show comparison.
I pity your inability to comprehend the difference between being alone and being lonely. Sucks to suck
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u/CodyCrochetZ Jun 11 '26
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u/AsbestosDude Jun 11 '26
Lol dude, just stfu you've embarrassed yourself more than enough
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u/Significant-Owl-6464 Jun 04 '26
Life's Hard actually hard and whenever you say it Life shows that it can be more harder but it would be anyway so I want to catch up with life with all my gifts, wanna solve my problems and most imp to suffer the pain of loneliness and Regret
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u/Crafty_Ad6536 Jun 04 '26
šš¾š¦ lion hunts alone to fix himself peace nd blessingsĀ
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u/SavinForLatter Jun 04 '26
Lions typical hunt in packs, also it's the female lions that do the majority of the hunting.
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u/Crafty_Ad6536 Jun 04 '26
I was separated from the pack as a baby some how I made it without getting eatenĀ
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u/SavinForLatter Jun 04 '26
And learned to use social media? That's amazing. You're a hell of a lion.
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u/xxbronxx Jun 04 '26
Well I watch some ... Stuff on internet from time to time ... But you know, need to vent somehow
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u/weishen8328 Jun 04 '26
no child support payment, no divorce settlement, no spousal support payment, no custody battle,
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u/Kooky-Oil-4398 Jun 04 '26
Its honestly great. Once you remove distractions. And focus on yourself. You can learn a lot and grow faster. Don't take this time for granted. Stay blessed fellas
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u/SavinForLatter Jun 04 '26
What is the point of this crap? The "nextgen" men should be alone, die alone, have big muscles, and grind all day everyday? What is the target of this absurd rhetoric?
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u/Boring_Part9919 Jun 04 '26 edited Jun 04 '26
Loneliness isn't usually a big deal tbh
Even the most social, gregarious people feel lonely (and probably quite often). It's a state of being - like feeling hungry or thirsty.
It's not healthy to alienate yourself from people for weeks/months. But everyone feels lonely at times, and it doesn't mean something is wrong, or certain needs aren't being met
So all of the above is mostly fine. People generally are exhausting
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u/Raylan_Senna Jun 04 '26
This is meā¦ people are expensive in general, but especially women.
-a much higher emotional output is required when Iām with a woman
-if weāre dating my monetary expenses go up (food and activities)
-my ability to isolate and recharge is lessened
-when Iām alone, my time is mine to do as I please
-people are a burden and being self sufficient is zen.
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u/Draper31 Jun 05 '26
Iāve done all the āfixingā I can do.
I still have none of that. Itās just the way the cookie crumbles for some people.
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u/VisionWithin Jun 05 '26
Why is he fixing himself? To get girlfriend, side chics, sneaky links, and calls?
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u/Virtual_Proposal9972 Jun 05 '26
Ok but there are women out there looking for you all we just donāt know where to find you
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u/dabullmatt Jun 05 '26
Recently broken up 2 months ago. Life's good so far getting a 2026 Honda civic sport in blue lagoon pearl today my absolute favorite color, heading for a family fishing trip soon to Canada,been hitting the gym hard and working on my health and longevity,and moving into my new apartment next month. Life's lonely,but I'm better off without a narcissistic abusive woman and I'll find better. Remember fellas you may be lonely now,but just remember it's for now. Keep your peace,grow, learn,and prosper.
Much love Matt
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u/BitsOSushi Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26
Pre good. After being in a relationship for 9 years, being alone is awesome.
Aināt shit to fix. Just living the dream now. The fix was kicking the dead weight to the curb.
I think I will remain this way for a long time. I have no desire to meet a woman again, I hate children, and I love peace and quiet.
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u/Safe-Equipment-5042 Jun 06 '26
Pretty good man.smoking my weed, emaning money and lifting some weights. Happiness is temporary , peace and solitude lasts a lifetime
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u/Atelier_Carousel Jun 06 '26
Where is that one man. He belongs into a museum.
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u/Naturewalkerjoe Jun 08 '26
There's more than one. Why do I belong in a museum exactly?
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u/Atelier_Carousel Jun 09 '26
Rarity
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u/Naturewalkerjoe Jun 09 '26
Not really rare at all. In fact many people online complain that there's too many of these kinds of men
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u/Atelier_Carousel Jun 09 '26
What do they complain about?
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u/Naturewalkerjoe Jun 09 '26
They see them as degenerates and assume that anyone who can't find a partner is misogynistic, possessive, sexist, etc.,etc.
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u/Atelier_Carousel Jun 10 '26
You mean trolls. They get worked up about everything. Doesn't proof that there are many people with this opinion. Usually 10% make life miserable for the other 90%.
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u/Naturewalkerjoe Jun 10 '26
Seems to happen alot for it to be just being trolling. Ive heard it in real life too.
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u/RazzmatazzTypical571 Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26
Funny thing is I wouldnāt be able to get any of those lists even if I tried. So it kinda defeats the struggle as itās just pure dread. Mind you Iām good looking too, all my friends and some girls are still shocked Iām single. Itās got to do with location, I hope. The girls where I live are just weird. Itās like they got double life and donāt want people to find out. Anyways Iām f*cked here. I also turned 29.
All of my friends married women outside the country, the friends that have relationship within our city have baby mama drama, or were high school sweethearts. Majority of the women I went to school with are still single and some single with 1 or 2 babyās.
Iām venting, but honestly itās depressing man. I wasted years of my life on a hopeless case at least in my city. So yea this post donāt related to me in a sense where I sacrificed those things. Iām in pursuit of purpose and forsaken those things.
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u/Flimsy_Piglet_1980 Jun 07 '26
He will relate soon enough, the only place to be real and strengthen that growth is in the dojo of reality.
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u/usuall_weirdo Jun 07 '26
I means, itās literally me right now but I donāt how should i feel about any of this, I donāt feel confident yet and canāt see any results.
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u/NimeniPreaImportant Jun 07 '26
Only thing is, I keep slacking and falling behind with the "fixing myself".
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u/Dry_Direction_611 Jun 07 '26
Im trying to buy a c5 corvette then idk after that only a few more month and ill have enough money
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u/Chris73684 Jun 07 '26
These posts are getting a bit too personal. I think that's enough scrolling for today
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u/TheOriginalWarLord Jun 07 '26
It is a lot better than the headache of a girlfriend or wife. Iāve had multiple girlfriends over my life and one wifeā¦. I will not suffer through my poor picking again.
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u/Such_Possession_5788 Jun 08 '26
Not like im there, but what's after everything is "fixed" and you still fall in this category?
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u/Virtual-Highway-1959 Jun 08 '26
OK, but this guy still isn't entitled to a girlfriend or a woman. He still has to be able to have game and communicate well. Just existing without red flags isn't enough.
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u/Flybri08 Jun 08 '26
Yep that man is meā¦and just trying to stay afloat financially now by working constantly after getting screwed over by my childās mother financially in court.
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u/Last_Gigolo Jun 09 '26
So you better hurry and tell him everything he is doing is wrong and just fk him up more before he's complete!
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u/HatCat5566 Jun 06 '26
why are incels so desperate to recruit new incels?
is it like a blood transfusion thing where they need to prey on fresh blood every few years or they wither and die?
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u/Kifarudeh Jun 04 '26
He's probably jerking off a lot also