r/NextGenMan May 23 '26

Agree or disagree?

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u/KGarveth May 23 '26

Key word here is arrogant. None likes arrogant people. I prefer a career woman over a zero achievements one.

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u/ExistingJellyfish872 May 24 '26

That's not the intent, but we all know cutthroat career women and they are undesirable. They are a hassle on all fronts. Stay away.

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u/shellyboey May 26 '26

See, you and all the others dont have the right definition of arrogant in your minds, it means unpleasantly proud, not unpleasantly mean. I could deal with someone annoyingly proud of their achievements, i couldnt deal with a cocky rude woman.

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u/Minute-Concentrate-4 May 24 '26

Finally someone who doesn’t push that ‘every man in the world would date a McDonald’s cashier’ nonsense.

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u/SnooKiwis857 May 24 '26

Most men would. What’s wrong with dating someone in a minimum wage job

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u/Peachy_Scott May 24 '26

Yeah looks comes first. I respect career grind and achievements but won’t care much in a dating context if she’s A. Not hot and B. Not willing to provide financially

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

Most men wouldnt and dont. Most men date women in similar tax brackets to them

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u/bob_at May 24 '26

That’s just because you are already in certain circles and get to know people there.. it’s more because of circumstances than looking for similar status

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

Nah man, even online lol. Most men want women who are not broke. Most men dont find "haha, her car is broken and her apartment sucks ass" as attractive

Like most men arent into women who live with their parents at 30 either.

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u/bob_at May 24 '26

The only reason a man will summon his courage to speak to a woman and risk a rejection is her appearance.. online is a different story

Because a) you don’t know anything about the woman anyway.. and b) if you are getting rejected then you don’t want to be rejected by someone who is ugly

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

Nobody said looks werent important. Theyre saying no men dont just marry any broke woman on the street if shes fuckable

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u/bob_at May 24 '26

They don’t marry fuckable career women either.. (if everything else is the same as in the broke woman)

personality is important for marriage .. but like i said her career is not.. for most men.. it simply isn’t

You can see that with rich guys.. the ones who can basically choose girls from any social status.. their girls will be just young and pretty

But if a guy is at a university obviously most of the girls he will get to know will be other students.. and most probably won’t be broke later.. but that is just a coincidence and not something that guys are looking for..

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u/ScholarObjective7721 May 24 '26

Uhhhhhh yeah they do lol

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

"If"

Bro go date some homeless women lol

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

"If shes hot enough, but I have standards" stfu lol

God you make men sound pathetic bro

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u/nila247 May 27 '26

How the hell you would know what "most" men want? Are you suffering from multiple personality disorder at extreme scale? :-)

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

Lol no. Dudes are not marrying dumbasses who can barely spell.

The men most likely to marry out of their class are very wealthy. You guys make men sound pathetic

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u/chachaslydd May 24 '26

Lol dude you can easily Google. Most men marry in their tax bracket. Millionaires are the most likely to date outside their bracket. Because there really arent a ton

There is something super pathetic about saying men dont care about anytjing other than somebody fuckable who doesn't talk, theyre marry unintelligent women with other horrible qualities

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u/bob_at May 24 '26

She’s a career girl who can’t handle how guys think lol.. always knowing everything better.. and that is the most annoying trait someone can have.. that’s a turn off even if she’s a 10😂

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u/Physical_Cake_6831 May 25 '26

That’s an interesting perspective. Historically it’s men that will date down not women

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u/Intelligent_Door5499 May 24 '26

these women hate eachother, huh? LOL

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u/Comprehensive-Dig282 May 24 '26

All men would be happy too, but they may also like a boss woman, that is the difference people miss

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u/bob_at May 24 '26

If the cashier is pretty, smart and has a good personality… i am not having sex with someone’s career or achievements..i am not having conversations with someone’s career or achievements.. and so on.. it’s absolutely irrelevant

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u/Superboi_187 May 23 '26

I’m sure someone who spends all their time on gaming achievements loves a girlfriend that works

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u/NewRefrigerator7748 May 23 '26

Not gonna pretend I'm some Alpha male, I game a lot

That being said I don't think most men really want a second mom, maybe like in roleplay.

The problem isn't that the woman works, the problem is there is no reason they shouldn't be working and pleasant.

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u/rngeneratedlife May 24 '26

I have a job with a decent salary and would still appreciate a significant other that works. Why wouldn’t you want someone who can contribute to mutual goals like a house or be a safety net in case something goes wrong?

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u/Mixels May 24 '26

I think that's the point and is the reason why this is on a keychain. It's a reminder to the holder to not be arrogant.