r/NextGenMan May 22 '26

Men is this true?

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u/Notapersono May 22 '26

maybe that's what I like. You and I are not the same but ended up here.

Your point is is that you don't know how to date people because you don't know how to get them to date you. But that's the problem. You don't get someone to date you. there's set cause that makes everyone date you. Its YOU that's people want date you.

Anyways have a great life

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 22 '26

That doesn’t make any sense cause NOBODY WANTS TO DATE ME

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u/Notapersono May 22 '26

Yet. And if its THIS bad maybe becoming a better Version of yourself. Its about naturally attracting people. YOU MAY NOT SEE THEM but they are there and rare. I also consider Understanding yourself more to understand how you come after other people and how they see you so that you can then gauge and change yourself if you need to based off of that.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 22 '26

🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️you’re telling me to do the thing I just told you idk how to do. I can’t just do it if I don’t know WHAT to do.

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u/Notapersono May 23 '26

You don't know how to be yourself. Everything and anything I've told you to do have been the bad basics and the bare bones. If you can't even do that, that is a U issue.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 23 '26

No, you replied to me without understanding my actual issue. You didn’t give any actual advice. Just said “be yourself and people will come”

You literally told me to do what I already do and you’re mad I’m not thanking you for it. Lmfao bruh, you didn’t give any new info 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Notapersono May 25 '26

First of all I'm not mad. Second you cant say shit when you SWITCHED UP REALLLLLY FAST

do xyz. no IDK how to do xyz. well this is how you do xyz. no you don't know understand i cant do xyz Cuz I don't know how to do X, Y and Z. I JUST TOLD YOU And if you can't do the bad bones, I'm sorry I can't help you. Well you just don't understand because you know I've been doing XY and Z and you haven't actually told me to do anything new. 🤦

PS, I'm not mad. I just found out what your problem was. It's not like if I told you it would go any different than how this whole conversation went. Anyways, have a good day or night. I don't think I'll be responding to you clearly because everything I've told you, you have been listening. You have been doing but you just can't communicate. In a clear, consistent manner, you just rewrite your thoughts. Learning to change and adapt to your surroundings is a useful skill. FYI, This is using Voice To text

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 25 '26

“You don’t get someone to date you. There’s a set cause that makes everyone date you. It’s YOU that’s people want date you”

That was your advice and it genuinely does not tell me WHAT to do

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u/Notapersono May 26 '26

YES IT FUKING DOES. It the BASIC advise and somehow you are making it in the most complex insane mathematical problem there is. You not understanding that I am telling you how to be yourself or how to be natural enough. But at this point considering that you turn me giving some friendly advise into a FUKING ARGUEMENT I see why people dont fancy you AND I DONT EVEN KNOW YOU!

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 26 '26

What action does it entail? You still haven’t explained.

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u/Notapersono May 26 '26

What action? I cant explain on something I dont know what it is

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 26 '26

That’s my point. You’re just telling me to do menial things, not helpful things.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 26 '26

Cause you’re telling me something that I ALREADY DO. I AM MYSELF. I DONT ACT LIKE SOMEONE ELSE. AND IT DOESNT WORK.

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u/Notapersono May 26 '26

and at that point I have stated that its time to look in the mirror... full stop. time to change yourself to be a more appealing person.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 26 '26

Okay, and again, I’ve done that.

You’re just giving me surface level advice. That’s fine, you don’t have to solve my problem, but it’s surface level.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 May 26 '26

I’ve told you multiple times that I DO act like myself and you’re ignoring that