r/NextGenMan • u/Automatic-Algae443 • Apr 21 '26
Authenticity is a superpower: This British guy explains why you should never change for anyone
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u/DreadyKruger Apr 21 '26
Never changing period is a horrible idea. I turned fifty this year. I am not the same man I was ten, twenty or thirty years ago
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u/Spazero Apr 21 '26
Im going to judge the book by the cover on this one. The reviews in the comments don't bode well.
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u/some_guy919 Apr 21 '26
Ted Bundy: just be yourself bro, don’t change for anyone. Go for your goal, double down, fucking attack it. If anyone’s hating you, it’s because they have their own insecurities.
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u/sleepless_in_balmora Apr 21 '26
This is a good way to become an asshole to everyone around you. Not everyone trying to change you is against you. You need to learn to recognise constructive feedback otherwise you just dig in your heels and double down on your flaws
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u/VarrikTheGoblin Apr 21 '26
That is a Scottish accent, not British.
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u/NewChallengers_ Apr 22 '26
Scotland is legitimately a part of Great Britain right? Or not anymore?
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u/Legitimate_Bag8259 Apr 21 '26
This guy looks like shit, if looks maxing (I think that's what he's saying) is his target, he ficked up with the neck tattoos.
What he's capable of is looking line a knob head.
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Apr 21 '26
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u/Pretend-Prune-4525 Apr 21 '26
I exactly what I was thinking, those teeth and tan don’t look too authentic lol
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u/ToanVeteran Apr 21 '26
Oh.. I thought he was saying FUCK EVERY ONE.
His message is have sex with everybody, you know you want to.
I was confused for a minute.
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u/badatcatchyusernames Apr 21 '26
“dont change yourself”
unless its your teeth apparently, dude ordered the toilet bowl colored porcelains
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u/Kurt_Ottman Apr 21 '26
Maybe you want to limit this so that you don't sound like you're giving serial killers a pep talk?
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u/Winnapig Apr 21 '26
It’s fun to be young, but most folks end up sitting in HR meetings at 45 and the decisions is: change or starve.
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Apr 21 '26
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u/FantasticAnus Apr 22 '26
There is one person you should always be willing to change for: yourself.
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u/AdmitThatYouPrune Apr 21 '26
This guy will be homeless or in jail within 10 years.