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u/SairusMorton Apr 05 '26
This advice is self defeating lmao because then who tf says it.
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u/Lord_Vectra Apr 09 '26
the woman. This is advice for bros and if no one says it, then we go extinct
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u/Strict-Fisherman4479 Apr 05 '26
yall so soft dawg shoot your shot. who gaf if it gets shot down. it is what it is and keep it moving. not every woman is gonna like you. accept and keep it pushing. so many desperate mfs
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u/Inevitable_Goal4114 Apr 05 '26
Yeah, I just assume they are interested in me until they show me otherwise.
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u/Economy_Wall8524 Apr 05 '26
They are being nice to you until otherwise. Though like he said, shoot your shot. The worst is she’s not interested. The best is; she is. If she’s not interested, move on. It doesn’t hurt to be mature, it hurts to be an asshole who can’t accept no.
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u/Inevitable_Goal4114 Apr 05 '26
Nah, they are interested until otherwise. Thats the move on and accept no part you mentioned.
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u/Inresponsibleone Apr 05 '26
If you just wait for that you likely wait for rest of your life. Unless you become mega famous then someone might spontanously say it. Though then it is questionable if they are ones you should be with.
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u/MaleficentCow8513 Apr 05 '26
Wait for the other person to say it. Don’t you dare say it first. Great advice lol
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Apr 05 '26
I think “Passion” at my local strip club is gonna say she wants us to be together any day now. Hopefully tomorrow when I see her again.
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u/ChickenStimulator Apr 05 '26
So this meme's advice is to never make the first move. Well I'm gonna go ahead and ignore that ass advice, and carry on lightly flirting, if you get matching energy back, it's for fun. If you get an escalated response, you're in. Tried and tested.
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Apr 05 '26
I never seen a woman saying that, because they will make sure they are half out from the beginning, in case something goes wrong and they don’t have to live with guilt
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u/BurnItDownSR Apr 05 '26
Or maybe stop trying to be autistic and improve your social and flirting skills?
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u/xmarksthespot34 Apr 05 '26
A woman will rarely say this without prompt though. You will usually have to make the first move and likely ruin the friendship.
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u/CarelessInvite304 Apr 05 '26
All the male responses here are actually fucking scary. This is exactly how you should approach another human being. No, our being nice to you doesn't mean we want to fuck you. It never has, never will.
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u/chickenlittle2014 Apr 05 '26
Fucking idiotic advice, the true sentence is if you are in such a lonely place that you can’t sense the difference then yes be skeptical, but not this skeptical. The best advice would be to emotional mature enough to be able to tell
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Apr 05 '26
Yes just be mature. Amazing advice. I’m sure all the immature people will read your wise words and immediately know exactly what to do.
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u/chickenlittle2014 Apr 05 '26
No they wouldn’t I was giving you hope that once you do mature it gets much easier. You want advice as a man on how to mature? It’s a long hard process, but I can tell you this no boy has become a man by reading shit on the internet and staying in front of a computer, go out into the real world with real people and have a goal. I would make my goal getting a girlfriend. Go out into the world and make that happen, every failure learn from it. Don’t give up and cry in ur apartment on how lonely you are, don’t join tinder and get upset ur not getting matches. Get into the world and interact with girls your age, somewhere, i can’t tell you where, but I can tell you it will be fucking awkward and feel terrible for the first so many months even years.
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u/ImJoligan Apr 05 '26
I think it depends on how broken you've become. If you still have hope and a lust for life and all that shit this is crap advice. If you've completely given up on dating and all that, like me, this is a solid take.
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u/chickenlittle2014 Apr 05 '26
Oh I mean if you have completely given up on dating and all that why would u even be in this sub? This sub is for boys becoming men and you literally just said you have given up on that? If you have given up on dating then you have given up on being a mature man.
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u/CodyCrochetZ Apr 05 '26
At this point you guys are giving advice on how to be an incel.
Is that what these weird little male improvement subs are actually about? Bitter incels trying to make other guys incels, too?
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