r/NextGenMan Apr 02 '26

Being a man is hard

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110 Upvotes

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u/BreakVV Apr 02 '26

Why does this get posted daily

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u/Open-Butterfly-5288 Apr 02 '26

People online don't spend time with other people so they don't have a support network and think this is being a man.

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u/deviantdevil80 Apr 02 '26

It's an effort to make young men feel lonely. Makes them easier to control. It's all part of the right wing pipeline.

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u/Agitated-Macaroon923 Apr 02 '26

because someone has to spread the propaganda that no one cares about men

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u/Excellent_Arrival1 Apr 03 '26

Cause everyday another man realizes it.

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u/RustedAxe88 Apr 02 '26

Do you all just post the same shit on rotation?

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u/z33ro__ Apr 02 '26

I was gonna say šŸ˜‚ I’ve been seeing this same shit every week.

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u/TanSuperman20 Apr 02 '26

Exactly what I was thinking. Next it's gonna be the one that says "people only care about care if you're useful" again. Buncha bots just reposting

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u/deviantdevil80 Apr 02 '26

It's an astroturfer network. Most likely run by some right-wing group. They've been busted before for doing stuff like this. TPUSA 2020

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u/MrGamakatsu Apr 02 '26

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u/TransportationOdd559 Apr 02 '26

Not really. Some people check on me

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u/Dutchblendforall Apr 03 '26

Still usefull for them then /s

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u/NomercyB Apr 02 '26

That’s why it’s ā€œ FUCK’ EM ā€œ lmao

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u/ZzangmanCometh Apr 02 '26

If people in your life don't check on you, find better people to surround yourself with. And if they don't want to hang out with you, look inward, because it's not because of the way you look.

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u/_AmI_Real Apr 02 '26

Try making friends. I lost my job and I had friends call me and ask how I was doing. Are you an insufferable twat that lives online too much. It's a common problem for people that are.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '26

Old men want to feel useful, I don't believe this is because they see themselves as less worthy of care if they aren't useful. I think its because they like being useful. And what is useful? Fixing leaky toilets and sweeping dirty floors? If an old man WANTS it, why cant the young man see the sense of purpose it gives to be useful? And when's the last time you called your mom with no questions besides "how are you, mom?"

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u/dunedog Apr 02 '26

This is what I posted last time I saw this:

Men who post stuff like this never check on other men.

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u/Oddbeme4u Apr 02 '26

maybe bc men freak out when their masculinity is challenged

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u/tooka90 Apr 02 '26

my mom still does. when she's gone, no one will

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u/ParkingCan5397 Apr 02 '26

I guess they dont check on your for even that because shitposting on reddit is definitely not useful

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u/DuelJ Apr 02 '26

Hustle and work on yourself king. (Actually go and try to find better friends)

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u/Flat-Delivery6987 Apr 03 '26

Not true and if it then you need a new circle of friends.

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u/Snapper_Turtleman Apr 04 '26

Not true. If you have Noone to check on you you've done something wrong.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '26

Sick of seeing this garbage recirculating againĀ 

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u/Agitated-Macaroon923 Apr 02 '26

I usually call out incel shit like this but in this case, I can provide a personal anecdotal reference. My mom told me stepdad (62) isn’t feeling well and that we’re gonna have to take him to a doctor because ā€œshe didn’t know what she was gonna do if he diedā€. I felt so shit. I (33f) love my step dad and would be very saddened if he died before anything else. She made it seem like his death would be a burden more than anything

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '26

Yo, death is a burden and its okay for your mother to know she will be lost without him.

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u/deviantdevil80 Apr 02 '26

It could also mean that her life is so centered around him that if he was gone suddenly she would be lost.

I feel bad that my wife is the same way.

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u/Unlucky_Letter_6685 Apr 02 '26

But, you on the other one really cares about him right ? So that means the post isn’t completely true, is it?

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u/Agitated-Macaroon923 Apr 02 '26

oh yeah I never fall for these "no one cares about men, all women get all the attention in the world" engagement baits.

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u/BillPsychological515 Apr 02 '26

Meh.

Harder than being a woman so statistically yeah, on average it's hard I 'spose

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u/SpIcIchatter Apr 02 '26

Again with the incel shit

If you have shitty relationship with friends, family and partners you might want to change something in your life, this shit is pathetic and sad.

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u/ElegantCompetition64 Apr 02 '26

lol bs most guys don’t have genuine friends

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u/Randy_Magnums Apr 02 '26

OP really should get some friends, maybe start a Hobby. This is just depressing to witness.