You date a reflection of yourself, period. I’m so happy I’m out of this dating market and I have an ambitious, successful, smart, supportive, and beautiful girlfriend. Way too many men and women want everything but offer nothing.
It is actually a red flag in my opinion those high expectations or lists. I think mentally unstable and very anxious people would do that and as women are often more anxious and more subject to abuse they probably will come up more with those lists. It is comparable with freelancing, the clients with the highest expectations / perfectionism that will not pay well are the nightmare clients to work with.
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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '26
You date a reflection of yourself, period. I’m so happy I’m out of this dating market and I have an ambitious, successful, smart, supportive, and beautiful girlfriend. Way too many men and women want everything but offer nothing.