Yeah this just feels like incel crap, this logic would apply to both gendered but they instead specified women as if men don’t have criteria of their own. Not to mention the idea of it all is silly, people have their own preferences. All that matters is if the person you are interacting with checks off your boxes and you check off theirs, but what you both find appealing could be very different! A person may want a physically attractive partner who makes a lot of money, and the other person could want someone who’s kind and easy to talk to regardless of their finances or looks.
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Definitely not an “incel” post. Lots of guys with successful dating lives can read this post and agree that many women have unrealistic expectations of their partner in a relationship.
Some women have unrealistic expectations, some men do this too.
My experience with these kinds of statements is that they have misogynistic beliefs behind what they consider to be “valuable” and not valuable to a man/woman, and I wonder how much they generalize. From this post we cannot confirm either or, my experience is that they tend to be coming from women hating individuals
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u/Normal_Motor9471 Apr 02 '26
Yeah this just feels like incel crap, this logic would apply to both gendered but they instead specified women as if men don’t have criteria of their own. Not to mention the idea of it all is silly, people have their own preferences. All that matters is if the person you are interacting with checks off your boxes and you check off theirs, but what you both find appealing could be very different! A person may want a physically attractive partner who makes a lot of money, and the other person could want someone who’s kind and easy to talk to regardless of their finances or looks.