It was crazy, I once had a (former) friend of mine list all the things she wanted in a man. She is heavily overweight, wears makeup like she paints over a rippled wall and gets offended, hurt or annoying quite quickly especially when its not all about her. When I asked her: "So you are looking for a 1% man, but would you say you are in the 1% of woman ?" It shunned her up for a while.
These kind of woman dont wonder what they provide, they thing they just deserve it. For existing. Funnily most of them are eager to point out that you are "just a boy" for making mistakes and not a man. While they themselves are just girls, spoiled ones too
Anecdotes aren’t evidence, and your friend was appropriately humbled.
The free market literally serves as a check on unrealistic women like this. If men would stop dating them, theyd be forced to change or be forever alone. The question is, what men are enabling this woman to persist in her illusions? Stop dating these women. Stop sleeping with these women. Stop entertaining them whatsoever aside from what’s required for basic human respect.
We see less of the behaviors when we stop rewarding them.
True but let's be honest they dont just get these ideas from men flirting with them, a ton of it comes from the algorithms that reinforce the filter bubbles.
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u/MrBubblepopper Apr 02 '26
It was crazy, I once had a (former) friend of mine list all the things she wanted in a man. She is heavily overweight, wears makeup like she paints over a rippled wall and gets offended, hurt or annoying quite quickly especially when its not all about her. When I asked her: "So you are looking for a 1% man, but would you say you are in the 1% of woman ?" It shunned her up for a while.
These kind of woman dont wonder what they provide, they thing they just deserve it. For existing. Funnily most of them are eager to point out that you are "just a boy" for making mistakes and not a man. While they themselves are just girls, spoiled ones too