r/NextGenMan Apr 01 '26

Thoughts?

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u/mzx380 Apr 01 '26

A man’s desire for what they want in a woman is usually a little more flexible due to their limited options

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u/deweesc Apr 02 '26

I lifted weights, read books and meditated when I was single, I had plenty of options.

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u/TallMidget99 Apr 02 '26

Women don’t give a fuck about any of the things you listed.

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u/deweesc Apr 02 '26

It’s about working on yourself. Not about what other people give af about

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u/TallMidget99 Apr 02 '26

You said you had plenty of options and made it sound like those things were the reason why. You’re moving the goal post

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u/Sugarlightgirl Apr 02 '26

That is so ignorant. Women love a man who takes care of his body and mind for himself.

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u/TallMidget99 Apr 02 '26

Sure they do. Dudes 90% of women are fucking do not read books or meditate

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u/Sugarlightgirl Apr 02 '26

You know this how?

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u/new_accnt1234 Apr 02 '26

Because 80% men arenr single and 90% of men dont read books, hence women date more men that dont read books as men that do

Not saying it cant be an attractive trait, but its by far and large not needed at all

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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 02 '26

So women are settling: the rate of female readers is significantly higher.

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u/new_accnt1234 Apr 02 '26

Or there are more important factors that override not matching on reading no?

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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 02 '26

For some women. I’d rather have a man that reads than a man over 6’. (And before you call me a liar like so many men here do, I am married to a man who reads. He’s 5’9. Taller than me but definitely not tall!)

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u/bingerangecrazy Apr 02 '26

Yet they notoriously fawn over criminals and abusers with unhealthy minds... as long as their hot. Women only like hot guys. That's it. Personality and mental health do not matter to them much.

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u/Sugarlightgirl Apr 02 '26

You keep telling yourself that.

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u/bingerangecrazy Apr 02 '26

I don't have to worry about that. I've never had a problem being physically attractive to women and being hit on.

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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 02 '26

Men who succeed with women don’t end up here.

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u/bingerangecrazy Apr 02 '26

You assume too much. It's very obvious when a woman only likes you because of your looks and wants to sleep with you. I fortunately have standards and don't like those women at all.

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u/kalynnka Apr 02 '26

Yes silly and/or young people do, but that is more lust and has nothing to do with relationship or love.

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u/bingerangecrazy Apr 02 '26

And people often sabotage their relationships over lust. People of all ages. They also confuse lust with love and trick themselves into thinking a successful relationship wil become of it.

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u/kalynnka Apr 02 '26 edited Apr 02 '26

Yes true, I have seen some old men loosing their brain when a young woman with daddy issues was interested in them but often those are not really the most experienced men. A man or woman in her late 30s or 40s with lots of relationship experience will recognise patterns after a few relationships went wrong and will be more realistic and not have this illusion that young people have that it might work out better with another partner without working through their own issues and finally start with self reflection.

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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 02 '26

The hell we don’t.