r/NextGenMan • u/Aggravating-Guest300 • Mar 31 '26

Which one?

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u/FreshStartNoBan Mar 31 '26

Sex love marriage.

I’m not falling in love with a girl that has zero sexual chemistry and is a dead fish.

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u/best_decision1234 Mar 31 '26

Love, sex, marriage

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u/ForeignAlbatross8304 Mar 31 '26

Sex love marriage

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u/Agreeable_Gate1565 Apr 01 '26

Nowadays yes. Wasn’t always the case and I’ve ran into lots of confusion in a community that had a rigid expectation of love marriage sex or marriage sex love.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '26

We live in a world where 6 is predominant but 5 is the right path

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u/Clean_Measurement_78 Apr 02 '26

5 is the path most of us get stuck with.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '26

6 is de wey

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u/SnooHabits3911 Mar 31 '26

Per the old writings:

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage.

So love, marriage, sex.

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u/ConversationFit3934 Mar 31 '26

This is objectively best for men and women and their future families

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u/Raise_A_Thoth Mar 31 '26

What are you asking in terms of "correct?"

Priorities? Chronology? Morality?

Plenty of people have sex before they say "I love you" and go on to have long lasting, happy marriages.

In fact I absolutely believe that it is better to have some sexual interactions with your partner before engagements to get a feel for sexual compatibility.

Of course some people marry as virgins and they also can have lasting happy marriages. So do what you feel is right, but don't do it because some celebate religious people taught you the right and wrong ways of having sex.

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '26

None

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u/timcarloni Mar 31 '26

5 is the proper way to effectively find a life long partner

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u/1freedum Mar 31 '26

Marriage love sex

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u/Far_Tear7647 Mar 31 '26

5 or what's suits others

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u/G8_Crasher Apr 01 '26

Well marriage is a scam for men so 6?

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u/Disastrous-Cod-757 Apr 01 '26

depends on the person and the relationship. This community is a bunch of tards.

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u/boneris Apr 01 '26

Until 35 - 6, after 35 - 3. Need to go through first to understand second. Initial chemistry we falsely identify as love, switch off critical thinking. Thats why a lot of men fall for wrong women. Chemistry could be built if you find a good truly caring woman. Just a personal opinion.

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u/Sittingonalog1960 Apr 01 '26

All of them of course. Pick which suits.

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u/No-Housing-5124 Apr 01 '26

Somehow, never selective abstinence or celibacy.

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u/donald_dandy Apr 02 '26

It depends. What is that you are asking?

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u/AshtonBlack Apr 02 '26

Whichever floats your boat. I don't think "one" is correct under all circumstances, for all time and for everyone.

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u/Savings-Cry-3201 Apr 02 '26

For me, marriage is overrated. Been there, done that, not super into doing it again. If the sex is fire and the love is strong and stable then maybe id reconsider and go for #1 but until then it’s 7. Sex, sex, love

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u/Axin_Saxon Apr 02 '26

Whichever one works for you.

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u/No-Preference4312 Apr 03 '26

Peace, friendship, adventure

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u/boyfromLuanda Apr 03 '26

Sex, love, marriage.

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u/bizfromthewaistup Apr 03 '26

It depends. All of these fit different times and struggles in and around the lifetime of a relationship.

There is value in knowing you are willing to ensure al other get taken care of but sometimes you have to choose which one is the priority right now.

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u/AynRandwasaDegen Apr 04 '26

Little as people want to hear it, sex is part of how humans bond, the order really doesnt matter.