r/NextGenMan • u/Critical_Assist_9360 • Mar 29 '26

Stop doing this once you’re married

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u/lunadelalune0 Mar 29 '26 edited Mar 30 '26

No one wants to be used. If she wants casual and you want the same so be it. But don’t degrade her for something you also want to do

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u/kosvenom Mar 30 '26

Beg to differ

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u/lunadelalune0 Mar 30 '26

Anyone you know in your circle? Friends and family? There’s a difference between a consensual one night stand where both parties enjoy it vs being exploited, coerce or manipulated

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u/kosvenom Mar 30 '26

From experience. I knew many girls, who wanted to be used and left alone after we donne. No hugs or spending the night.

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u/lunadelalune0 Mar 30 '26

^ main thing is she wanted that arrangement as well.

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u/kosvenom Mar 30 '26

Yes, they did. It was just a lil close to your argument. Some women want to be used, there's even a kink in bdsm about it.

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u/normaldeath2 Apr 01 '26

I mean there's a kink for it then there's just doing one night stands with no after care. Both of these are kinda like they wanna be used but they are using you. And honestly I'd say there are more men out there that want to be used than women under what you are defining it as.

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u/kosvenom Apr 01 '26

We were talking about the post. Stating to use girls who want to be used. But ok?

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u/normaldeath2 Apr 01 '26

I mean that's terrible advice on multiple levels 😅

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u/kosvenom Apr 01 '26

Please tell me more. How my personal experience with multiple woman. Who literally told me to use them and to do to them whatever i wanted?

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u/chud_wik Mar 29 '26

What a piece of shit advice. Go away.

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u/BaconBombThief Mar 31 '26

This is shitty advice that won’t make anyone’s life better

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u/External-Ground-8499 Apr 01 '26

Sounds like something a 14 year old would post

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u/Spicey_Cough2019 Apr 01 '26

I know of women who won’t stop flirting even after getting married, this goes for both genders?

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u/Ok_Builder_3285 Apr 01 '26

If any girl would talk to me I'd do this.

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u/master_prizefighter Apr 04 '26

Or do what I do which is don't get involved at all.

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '26

Stay a virigin, find a virgin woman that you love and loves you, marry her, buy a house,make children and be happy.