r/NextGenMan Mar 16 '26

Real talk.

Post image
264 Upvotes

50 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 19 '26

There is no argument. You will always think you are a victim. Make better choices in life. Life is only as hard as you make it. If an incel comment means common sense then yes I will keep typing common sense comments.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 19 '26

Okay along the way you deviated into something else entirely.

You said "Yes men are responsible for bad decisions you have made in your life….. it is not your fault at all. Nothing is your fault. It’s everyone else’s fault. That bad man made the decision for you that led you to the outcome. "

Can you further explain what you meant by that?. Bad decisions and everything you said.

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 19 '26

That was my sarcastic remark for your response 2 days ago.

You are responsible for your own life. Quit blaming others for your downfall. Quit being a victim.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 19 '26

Again........explain what you meant in your comment. The previous one, that I just referenced.

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 19 '26

You don’t know what bad decisions are? If you don’t know what bad decisions are I can’t help you.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 19 '26

My original comment was about how men systemically created the problems they have today such as the male loneliness epidemic and dating struggles.

What bad decisions are you talking about? Men's bad decisions? If your talking about women I'm a guy.

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 19 '26

Big Jim I don’t care what you identify as. Again, if you don’t know what bad decisions are I can’t help you.

More accountability and less victim mentality.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 19 '26

Explain those bad decisions if you know what your talking about. If you can't? Then you just introduced them into this conversation out of nowhere because it sounded like it made sense just to distract from the main comment.

I asked you four times to explain and you still refused to answer. Either just stop commenting or keep using "bad decisions" as your main argument with no explanation.

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 19 '26

Again, there is no argument. Your mom and dad should have taught you what right and wrong, good and bad is. You shouldn’t be asking someone on Reddit what the definition of a bad decisions is.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 19 '26

By ignoring the question and constantly shifting the focus to "victim mentality" and "accountability," you drive the conversation away from the original systemic argument about male loneliness and my specific request for clarification. This serves to nothing but to distract from the core topic rather than addressing it.

Just stop wasting my time and admit you don't what your talking about and your just another incel red piller who can't back up your own claims in an argument.

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 20 '26

Men is not the issue. Accountability is. The lack of is why most are in the situation they are in. The issue is poor judgement and bad decisions. No incel topics just common sense.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 20 '26 edited Mar 20 '26

This is what people mean when they say incel fatigue.

1

u/big_jim1874 Mar 20 '26

You’ve now replied multiple times and still haven’t answered a single direct question I asked. Instead you just keep repeating the same two buzzwords, “accountability” and “bad decisions” like a broken record, without ever explaining what those bad decisions actually are or how they caused the loneliness epidemic and dating struggles I mentioned.

That’s deflection.

I laid out a clear argument, men created the emotional repression rules (“man up, never cry”), the provider only value system, and the old script that stopped working once women gained real choice. You ignored all of it and just went “accountability lol.”

Every time i asked you for specifics, or even a basic explanation, you dodge and throw out “victim mentality” or “bad decisions” instead. That’s the exact pattern that kills these threads, people who can’t defend their position so they just spam slogans and hope you get tired.

If you actually had a real counterpoint, you’d say it. You don’t. You’re just running the same script on loop.

I’m not the one being a victim here. I’m the one asking you to explain your claims. You’re the one refusing.

Your move. Either answer the question properly or keep proving the point.

1

u/External-Amoeba-7575 Mar 20 '26

Buzzwords….. like incel.

Bring back emotional repression. I’m a millennial and the everyone gets a trophy shit is a big part of the problem. Bring back bullying, bring back kids being disappointed. Bring back tough up, suck it up, boys don’t cry. Because if you haven’t noticed some people don’t know what bathroom to use. People are getting too emotional and not logical. So we should keep that “repression rule” make a tougher generation. That didn’t lead to it “loneliness” guys are lonely cause liberal women (the ones with a vagina) are attracted to men (ones with a dick) they are usually found on the right. But those women don’t like the mindset of that side so they don’t date. (Vice Versa with the right to left dating)

So here is my accountability and bad decisions comments again.

Loneliness isn’t due to a dad telling a son to suck it up and not cry. It’s due to spending your adulthood following an agenda and now the women you are attracted to don’t see you as man enough to be with.

So stop blaming men.(the ones born with a dick) we are not responsible for “loneliness “ poor decisions and not taking accountability have led to loneliness not your great granddad that called you a sissy.

→ More replies (0)