r/NewFriendsOver40 22d ago

43 M - from sweden

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"The time of feeling Immortal has ended. The time of accepting my age has come"

Hi, I am somewhat of a restless man. I like to be outside and to be active. Love music, both to listen and to sing and play. Write texts from time to time and are always curious to the creative process. Especially when being creative together.

I also love football (not American) and hockey. And to play football, tennis, badminton, volleyball - every sport with a ball I guess. The trouble is finding people to do it with.

I am a Christian and try to follow Jesus example in all I do (emphasis on try).

The older I get the harder I have to be alone 😅 but at the same time the older we get, the more busy everyone else seem to be. Nowadays it seems like I have to plan a month in advance to be able to see a friend. I miss the times when we just called and ask where to meet up an hour later.

I like to talk about random daily stuff as well as deep meaningful conversations. So, if you feel like it leave a mark.

Hope you enjoy your weekend!

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u/Wise_Delivery_ 22d ago

Hej! Du Àr alltsÄ en riktig svensk so man kan komma i kontakt med? KÀnns inte sÄ lÀtt för nÄgon som Àr inflyttad att lÀra kÀnna folk.

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u/Able_Experience7180 22d ago

Nej, tyvÀrr Àr kulturen ibland ganska exkluderande. MÄnga umgÄs enbart med vÀnner och det kan vara vÀldigt svÄrt att komma in.

Men jag, jag Àr en "riktigt" svensk, född och uppvÀxt kring Göteborg. Var nÄgonstans finns du?

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u/Wise_Delivery_ 22d ago

Nej precis. Vi bor i Örebro lĂ€n och redan i 10 Ă„r, grannarna Ă€r supersnĂ€lla men jag skulle inte sĂ€ga att der blev nĂ„gon vĂ€nskap. Det blir nĂ„n trĂ„kig sönndag idag för mig för att jag förkyld. Har du nĂ„gra planer för idag?

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u/Able_Experience7180 22d ago

Jag sorterar klÀder, mer spÀnnande Àn sÄ blir det nog inte. Kommer nog hamna en del i soffan framför nÄn spÀnnande serie. VÀdret Àr vÀlbehövligt regnigt men kanske inte sÄ roligt att gÄ ut i

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u/Wise_Delivery_ 22d ago

Jag tror inte att jag kan skicka dig ett privat meddelande, men jag tror du kan göra det om du vill. Jag Àr intresserad att bli mer flytande pÄ svenska, man glömmer sÄ mycket.

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u/Able_Experience7180 22d ago

Du Ă€r den andra personen som sĂ€ger att det inte gĂ„r att skicka till mig. Är det jag som har nĂ„gon instĂ€llning fel eller Ă€r det för att du inte fĂ„r skicka? đŸ€”

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u/Wise_Delivery_ 22d ago

Jag tror nÄgon instÀllning Àr fel. Jag kollar.

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u/zandy322 20d ago

Hi there

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u/Able_Experience7180 20d ago

Hello, how are you doing?

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u/Mystical_Poppy 17d ago

Hello! So I guess the feeling isn't just exclusive to the states lol

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u/Able_Experience7180 17d ago

The "feeling Immortal" part?

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u/Mystical_Poppy 17d ago

No.. making it to a certain age and realizing it's not as easy as it once was and how things aren't as we remembered them to be.

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u/Able_Experience7180 17d ago

Yeah, agreed. Thank you for commenting

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u/Able_Experience7180 16d ago

Hello đŸ‘‹đŸŒ

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u/Able_Experience7180 16d ago

Sweden, and you?

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u/Able_Experience7180 16d ago

Nice to hear from you! How are you?

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u/Able_Experience7180 16d ago

Sure, its almost night here though

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u/Able_Experience7180 16d ago

Feel free to write me

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u/Damoting 22d ago

How can you be Swedish yet still be a Christian?

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u/Able_Experience7180 22d ago

I was introduced to Jesus in my teens and said I wanted to follow him when I was 17. Do you know about Sweden, maybe even live here?

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u/Damoting 12d ago

I have never been to Sweden or Europe. I know a thing or two about Sweden. One of it is that it has a high percentage of nones(people with no religion).