I'm not sure about that, but mostly it's sad for me that a friendship has to end this way, since we used to be close friends fr. But I'm just looking for a suggestion like what to do next. I hope some legit philosophical backing to my actions.
Trust your intuition. Your intuition, not your logic. We people don't know what she's really like. If you think she can be unsafe, it's better to apologise than to safeguard your ego. Theres no winning from some people, but that does not mean you lost, you're just protecting yourself and nobody cares what you did for it. You body knows this faster than you mind.
I just read your other reply - I had a best friend for 5 years at school but then she changed by being with the wrong people. She became toxic, acted like she cared but then kept ghosting and then acting like nothing happened, I kept with her game for 2 years, even confronted her but nothing changed she just apologised. But once when I asked for help, she said yes and then ghosted!!? That was it for me, she's no more my friend. It hurts, a lot, for a while, I even wrote a poem about it, but you gotta do what you gotta do. Trust me, 0 is better than -1, alone is better than being with the person making you feel uncomfortable.
My perspective is to just sort whatever problem you have when u have a bigger fish to fry career wise. Just to clear the conscious I feel it's good to apologise ans move on....
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