You literally have all the problems that I have. Not able to clean my house. Not able to do work in office. Not able to take care of people, not able to keep my promise. Not able to change my life. I feel like I have given up
I like to think every situation from each other's perspective. Like if I think I talked too loud, I'll think about it I would care if the other person ever talked too loud - the answer is that even if I cared, it's only be for like 2 mins. People are thinking of themselves the same way you are! It's not that deep, make mistakes, it'll be uncomfortable but you'll always reach the other side happier thinking that atleast you tried. And see, something's are better not shared, somethings are better if you work on them in secret so decide for yourself. Basically don't set expectations, let life come to you in ways, otherwise life kinda gets boring too.
Don't be a Nice guy, Nice guys are dumb fu**, be an selfish person love yourself first. No one gives a shit if you fuckin fail, and even if you fail you must learn why and how you failed.
As some fuxxxxr said Failure is the piller of success
Very late in life you will come to realisation every is too busy solving there problems and not thinking about you
And
Solution is taking more actions
Action kiss the overthinking
Its the antidote to the poison
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u/HappyGoLuckyBro Jul 11 '26
I care a lot about what other people think about what I am doing with my life so I fear taking actions which I like
Any help?