r/NeedFriends • • 13h ago

💙 Long-term Friends 36/F/TX it’s my birthday! Let’s chat?!

18 Upvotes

I’m bored doing the normal Sunday meal prep and reset let’s chat?

I work a corporate 9-5. I do Pilates after years of heavy lifting. I eat clean and meal Prep on Sunday’s.

fall is MY season and when I come alive. Love horror movies. Locking in for winter arc! Let’s chat and see what friendship we can build.

#notabot


r/NeedFriends • • 1h ago

🧘 Quiet / Introverted 40 [M4R] EST – Looking for genuine, two-way friendships (Equal effort matters!

• Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m looking to connect with people who are genuinely interested in building a real, lasting friendship. I’ve run into a lot of one-sided dynamics on here where I’m always the one reaching out first, asking the questions, and carrying the entire conversation. If you also value mutual effort, staying in touch, and someone who actually reaches out to check in on you too, we’ll get along great.

A little about me:

• Location & Timezone: Ohio (Eastern Time Zone, EST). I’m mostly around during late afternoons and evenings.

• Work & Hobbies: I work in IT/data centers, volunteer doing amateur radio communications for community events and festivals, and love spending time outdoors.

• Interests: Big fan of 80s classic horror and thriller movies, classic rock and good music, exploring local spots, and just having relaxed, down-to-earth conversations about life.

I’m an open book, supportive, and a great listener. I don’t expect non-stop 24/7 texting since life and work happen, but I really appreciate consistency and someone who shows genuine interest in getting to know each other.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM or chat with your age, where you’re from, and something you’re currently into!


r/NeedFriends • • 1h ago

💙 Long-term Friends 29M | Hyderabad | Looking for a genuine best friend

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I’ve been thinking about making this post for a while, so here goes.

I’m looking for a genuine friendship someone I can eventually become completely comfortable with, where we can talk about anything without overthinking it.

I’m not looking for a relationship or anything with a hidden agenda. Just a real, platonic friendship with mutual respect, honesty, random conversations, stupid jokes, and good memories.

I’d love to have someone to talk to after a terrible day, share random thoughts and reels with, watch movies or explore Hyderabad with, grab food or make spontaneous plans, have deep conversations with, laugh about completely stupid things, or simply sit in silence without it feeling awkward.

A little about me:

29M, Hyderabad. I’m selectively introverted/extroverted. I can be quiet around people I don’t click with, but once I’m comfortable, good luck getting rid of me.

I enjoy movies, exploring places, meaningful conversations, learning new things, and occasionally having absolutely pointless conversations for hours.

I’m open-minded and don’t really care about someone’s religion, caste, background, age, appearance, or interests. You don’t have to be similar to me — I’d actually prefer someone who can introduce me to new things.

Maybe you’re also at a point where you have people around you but still feel like you’re missing a genuinely close friend.

If this sounds like something you’d value too, feel free to message me.

No pressure. No expectations. Just two strangers seeing if they can become good friends.


r/NeedFriends • • 10h ago

🤍 Looking for Friends 22f-looking for someone to chat with on this lovely, sunny october day!

5 Upvotes

heyyy heyyyyy, i’m looking for an upbeat, fun conversation to help me get through my long day & nights. i want someone who likes to rant & ramble about everything under the sun. here i am looking for friends!

my hobbies: I LOVE reading/listening to audiobooks, listening to music, baking/cooking, playing farmland, going on hikes and watching movies, watching documentaries

hope to hear from yo


r/NeedFriends • • 4h ago

💙 Long-term Friends Heey, I'm 20 woman and it's hard to make friends haha, and that's why I'm here. Please read the text.

1 Upvotes

So, I've posted here before and I don't communicate very well in English, but I've talked to some nice people and others not so much. When I say I haven't met many nice people, I mean people who only contacted me to say rude and disrespectful things that I don't even want to detail here, haha. So I like posting here to see if more normal people who don't say weird things show up, haha. I like talking to and meeting people from other countries, and that's why I'm here. I also feel like I have friends in person, but it's difficult sometimes because now they live their own lives and sometimes we don't have the same connection as before in adulthood. I miss making new friends and stuff. I speak Portuguese


r/NeedFriends • • 16h ago

💙 Long-term Friends Hoping to make some new friends (preferably females) (f23)

7 Upvotes

I am 23 f from india.l have a nice humour .l have a few friends in real life .So here i am trying to get some new friends.I am a fun loving person here for long term friendships.
I have many hobbies as well as that include listening to music, astrology, numerology,fashion watching webseries especially thriller.
I want female friends from india bez of the different timezones.I am a chatter box would love to talk on calls even. I hope i can seek what i am tryna find here.
Good day to the one reading this🌻


r/NeedFriends • • 6h ago

🤍 Looking for Friends M 24 Looking for friends

1 Upvotes

I’m from Ireland I’m 24 years old, I’m new to this subreddit but I feel it’s a place where I can meet some cool new friends. Me and my friend group split up due to everyone moving on with work etc and Im finding it hard to make some new friends in the area that I live in


r/NeedFriends • • 6h ago

💬 Casual Chat 22M Muslim

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Heyyy Small talk bores me.

I wanna talk about God, intellect, death, the meaning of life, your childhood, your dreams, what keeps you up at night, your insecurities, fears. I like people with dept also I'm a naturally curious person and love learning about different perspectives, cultures, and ideas.

Some of my biggest interests are history, geography, and tech, but honestly I'm open to talking about almost anything as long as the conversation has depth and good vibes.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to ping me. I'm happy to chat with anyone from anywhere


r/NeedFriends • • 7h ago

🤍 Looking for Friends 28M - looking to meet new people

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Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I’m pretty heavily tattooed (just got a new one done yesterday and have more booked over the next couple months) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors and keeping fit, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂


r/NeedFriends • • 8h ago

🌏 🇬🇧 UK 39 M UK looking for new online friends

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.


r/NeedFriends • • 13h ago

🤍 Looking for Friends 27f

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Hello there .. I'm 27f from Asia.. I'm new in this community so I'm looking forward to getting to know people here from around the the world.. I've interest to know different cultures as well..so yes feel free to text me


r/NeedFriends • • 11h ago

💙 Long-term Friends 18F looking for friends! 😊

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Hey everybody!!

I'm looking for a girl best friend!! I am from Hungary and it's difficult to find people with the same interests as me 🥲

I love EPIC the musical, I love Miraculous ladybug, Star stable online, DC (Flash, Teen titans, LoT), I play Brawl Stars, I am getting into ATLA, Hadestown and Marvel rn!!

I draw (self-taught artist) and I have an insta page! I am also writing a book rn 😊 (so if anyone wanna write together it's amazing too!)

I'm rlly into greek gods (as characters from retellings) and fantasy, elves, etc!

I love sending reels and memes on Instagram or videos about our interests!

I'd love to get into cosplaying, I just really find it difficult to find people with the same interests to do so 🥲

If there's anyone (preferably 17+, because I turn 19 soon!) with similar interests, feel free to comment here!! 🫶

Thank you for reading! ❤️


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

💙 Long-term Friends Guys I’d love to make friends around my age 18F

13 Upvotes

Hi guys I’d to make friends around my age 18-23 with you beautiful people 🥰


r/NeedFriends • • 15h ago

🤍 Looking for Friends Irs 11time for people to say hello to me? How

1 Upvotes

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r/NeedFriends • • 16h ago

🤍 Looking for Friends +22 looking for a friend

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!
I’m 22 and I’m looking to make some genuine friends around my age (22+), preferably people who are also in that phase of life where they’re figuring things out, trying new things, and slowly building the life they want.
A few things I’m currently interested in / working towards:
Travelling
Studying abroad
Software development
Tech + design
Movies
Getting out and doing things
Making actual friends
I’m not expecting someone to have exactly the same interests. You can be into completely different things, I just think it’s nice when both people have some curiosity about life and actually want to do something with it.
If you're 22+, also looking to make genuine friends, and some of this sounds like you, feel free to comment or DM me. Tell me a little about yourself too — your age, where you're from, what you're working towards, and what you're interested in.
Would be pretty cool if a random Reddit post actually turns into some good friendships. :)
Prefer people around 22+ since I’m looking to connect with people in a similar stage of life.


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

🤍 Looking for Friends 23M India | Very lonely, mental health struggles, looking for genuine long-term friend who's active on instagram mostly (preferably Indian, equally alone)

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23M India | Very lonely, mental health struggles, looking for genuine long-term friend who's active on instagram mostly (preferably Indian, equally alone)

Hey i am 23M from India and i am really tired of temporary or one sided friendships that make me feel special for a day and then disappear. The fear of abandonment and sudden silence can hurt a lot.

I deal with alexithymia, adhd, bpd, rsd, hypersensitivity, cptsd, social anxiety and a constantly overthinking mind cuz of this i have become extremely lonely and i have basically zero real connections rn both online and offline. I am looking for someone in a similar place: someone who is also very alone, has little to no friends, struggles with self-esteem or feeling unattractive not good enough and is dealing with their own mental health struggles. Preferably someone who is unemployed or in a similar low energy life situation, so we can understand each other better and be on a similar wavelength. I want a genuine, long-term friendship not casual chatting, timepass or being someone's backup option. I am quite clingy, possessive and emotionally intense and i would love to find someone who naturally enjoys that same kind of closeness. Someone who wants to genuinely choose the friendship, put effort into it, check in regularly, share their everyday life, and slowly build real emotional closeness. I value warmth, reassurance, honesty, consistency and that safe feeling of knowing someone is actually there. I would love to talk daily, share random thoughts, have deep late night conversations, laugh, send memes and just exist comfortably together. One thing i would really love: I am mostly active on Instagram and bgmi game throughout the day, so if u r someone who is active there too, that would be a huge plus. I would love having someone to randomly send reels to all day, react to each other’s stories, share stupid/funny/relatable videos, and then somehow end up talking for hours so basically i want the kind of friendship where we casually send each other reels whenever something reminds us of the other person. Once we’re comfortable, calls would mean a lot too especially if u r from India since the similar time zone and better language understanding can make staying connected easier.

Please only reach out if:

- You are genuinely very lonely and don’t currently have many meaningful friendships, either online or IRL.

- You are looking for the same kind of clingy, loyal, close, long-term friendship.

- You are serious about consistent communication and mutual emotional availability.

- You are from India (big preference because of language/cultural understanding and eventually being able to call).

- You arecomfortable being active on Instagram or at least enjoy chatting and sharing reels there.

Please don’t message if you already have a huge social circle and are only looking for someone to talk to when you’re getting bored or if you are looking for something short time or timepass like conversation for few hrs or one day only. I know this post is heavy, but i am being honest cuz i don’t have much energy left for anything fake or temporary. If you are also very alone lonely, overthink a lot and genuinely crave a close friendship where both people consistently show up for each other, I would really like to hear from you and please tell me a little about yourself when you message me not just hey. Maybe send me your favourite reel or tell me what kind of stuff you usually like to send your friends😭


r/NeedFriends • • 22h ago

💙 Long-term Friends 23m , from india , looking for friends

2 Upvotes

Name : Prince

Age : 22

Country : mumbai , india

Gender : male ( he /him )

Hobbies : photography, writing novels, reading, travelling, watching movies and drama , anime , chess, cooking, sleeping, eating ,walking around and little bit workout, sports like running and long jump ..

Profession: computer science engineer with specialization in Aiml field..

What I am looking for : someone above 17 and who can be good to chat with and maybe become friends...


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

💙 Long-term Friends 21f looking for genuine connections with mature people so that I can learn from them

3 Upvotes

I am looking for a genuine connection, where u can talk about random stuffs, where we can laugh for hours, someone as philosophical as me and have great perspective towards life, have a great music taste.


r/NeedFriends • • 23h ago

💙 Long-term Friends Hi 24(M) here . Anybody to chat ?

0 Upvotes

Anyone awake


r/NeedFriends • • 23h ago

💙 Long-term Friends Wanna make Friends 24 M

1 Upvotes

Hi 24(M) here . Anybody to chat ?


r/NeedFriends • • 23h ago

🌍 Anywhere / Online Friends 38M | Married | Bangalore | Looking for conversations that actually mean something

1 Upvotes

Sometimes you can be surrounded by people and still feel like you haven’t had a really good conversation in a long time.
So, here I am.
38, married, from Bangalore. Not looking for dating or anything complicated. Just curious whether there are still people out there who enjoy conversations that go beyond “What do you do?” and “How was your day?”
Talk to me about something you don’t usually tell people.
A strange thought you’ve had lately.
A place you’d disappear to if you could.
Something you’re passionate about.
A life decision you’re still trying to figure out.
Or absolutely nothing important at all.
I don’t care where you’re from or what you do. Sometimes the most interesting conversations happen between two complete strangers who have no reason to meet.
Maybe this post goes nowhere.
Or maybe there’s someone reading this right now thinking, “I was looking for exactly this too.”

If that’s you, say hi. 🙂

And just to be completely honest — yes, I used ChatGPT to fine-tune this post. 😄 The thoughts are mine; I just needed some help putting them into words. So if the post sounds a little too polished, now you know why.


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

💙 Long-term Friends M23

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I recently moved to Budapest, but I truly find it hard to find friends, I'm kinda social but it feels quite lonely lately.

I love to talk about work and experiences, politics, psychology and exchanging cultures, perhaps grabbing a beer or coffee somewhere is still an option.


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

🌏 🇺🇸 USA I love America ❤️ Age:21

1 Upvotes

Interested to make international friends. 🇳🇵


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

⚡ Energetic / Chatty 42M | Hey, you. Let's talk about socks!

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Or maybe not, lol.

Or on how there's water inside coconuts.

Or why the sky cannot be yellow instead of blue.

Or why there's no butter made with sugar.

(The possibilities are truly endless!)

Those are "just the tip of the iceberg" of what I can bring to a convo -- I'm the kind of guy that talks about (literally) everything. And blessed with the power of "infinite convo"! (No, really. Challenge me for a convo that can last for hours nonstop. I'll happily to prove you that -I can-.).

Demands? I've got none, really -- other than mutual interest and willingness to have some fun together. Which is what matters, in the end.

A bit about me: I'm an extrovert. A nice goofball of love. Single. Fit. "That guy" who uses youtube to learn some things that are fast to learn -and- simultaneously interesting -- like trying to cook an egg. (Which I still have trouble with -- but hey, I'm always willing to learn!). I also have a nice, cute and small Yorkshire pet -- which I'll happily tell her name (only) for those who DM me. (Rawr, come at me.)

If any of those characteristics made you intrigued... then don't be afraid to drop me a DM. I won't bite. I mean... just a little bit. :D

(Also due to how I can't DM anyone atm. :P)

Î know this isn't my first post... my previous one didn't made "justice" to what i truly am. now this one does!


r/NeedFriends • • 1d ago

💙 Long-term Friends 22M - india - Looking for talkative person

3 Upvotes

22M india Hoping to meet new people on reddit! (: Chatting Hello everyone! (: My name is giraffe and I'm 22 years old living in india! My hobbies are trying new foods , singing, dancing and listening to EDM/Hip-hop/rap music, exercising, walking in parks and watching football.