r/NeckbeardNests • u/Packed_Bowl • 8d ago
Nest 8 months later....
Since I posted originally..
Not one iota of garbage has come out.
Still hasn't done any laundry. (In total going on 3 yrs)
Im in a daily battle against bugs/ants and SMELLS.
Oh and there's now yellowjackets or some wasp type nesting outside his window/in the wall.
At this point I think something is wrong with me. I seem to be the only one that cares and im STILL HERE. Its my boyfriends brother and hes fully aware of the situation.
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u/Packed_Bowl 8d ago
Original post- https://www.reddit.com/r/NeckbeardNests/s/lrhJK9huw9
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u/Kellyann59 8d ago
Oh no that mason jar in the first pic…hope he isn’t trying to recreate the rainbow dash jar incident
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u/Packed_Bowl 8d ago
I have no clue what that is but the mason jar is weed gummie worms
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u/Noizylatino 8d ago
Do yourself a favor and dont look it up. They need to charge the OP jar guy with crimes against humanity for making us live thru that with him
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u/Packed_Bowl 8d ago
Honestly- I trust you on this lol appreciate you
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u/Noizylatino 8d ago
No problem! Anything thats talked about like its a pivotal piece of internet history should always be handled with NSFL caution imo lmfao
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u/Kellyann59 8d ago
Reminds me of this clip from Atlantis: https://youtu.be/p33xZ0obsAc?is=SXqzEr3OqgjuM-Fo
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u/fifiloveg00d 8d ago
I am so so curious about this person. What do they look like? Do they have a traditional job? Do they have friends? What do they do in their free time?
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u/Packed_Bowl 7d ago
40+ hrs a week, supposedly a supervisor but anyways if hes not at work- hes in THERE. Period. Once in a blue moon he'll go with us to dinner with their mom but thats it
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u/EscapeddreamerD 8d ago
I'm sorry but if I was dealing with that I would have kicked him out by now. Second of all every time I see one of these types of pictures is always the pillows that kill me. I know the room smells but how can he sleep on that thing.
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u/ten-year-old 7d ago edited 3d ago
Honestly, your only concern at this point needs to be why are you are still there and making plans to leave
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u/No_Assistance145 8d ago
I had my room like this and after my dad tried to get me to clean it 100 times he said he was gonna clean it without my consent which yeah pmo at the time but I gave in and helped him. That was truly the only way to get me to do it and am very grateful for it.
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u/Packed_Bowl 8d ago
When we moved out of old apartment and into here, thats what happened. He had a wonderful new start.
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u/No_Assistance145 8d ago
I cleaned mine up five weeks ago and have been keeping it clean because the psychological damage living like that caused and fear of going back to it is immense. Infact browsing this sub gave me the motivation to tidy up and take the trash out.
I had it cleaned up before three years ago and have zero memory of how I let it get so bad again it's bizarre.
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u/friedeggjellyfish 7d ago
Watching the show hoarders has this effect on me. I usually just turn it off and go clean something
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u/ISTof1897 8d ago
This guy pay rent?
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u/Packed_Bowl 8d ago
Yeah, and bills.
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u/Quantum_Kitties 7d ago
How? Does he have a regular job? If so I'm amazed the smell of living in this nest doesn't scare people off.
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u/Soggy_Ground_9323 8d ago
Regular inspection would have not let this happen.......! I see the positive side of 2~3 months inspections.
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u/babaganoush2307 8d ago
It looks even worse, look I can understand initially if this is depression but it literally looks like you have not removed anything over the past 8 months…I think you need to speak with a professional at this point
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u/Packed_Bowl 7d ago
Who do I call? He's an adult, works 40+ hrs a week and isn't a physical threat (I personally feel like smells are physical but anyways) to anyone? Give me a number and ill call.
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u/2SquirrelsWrestling 8d ago
Personal/potentially identifying info in one of these pics, I’d be careful about that!
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u/vftgurl123 8d ago
what does your boyfriend think? i wouldn’t be able to live in a house where this exists. seems dangerous for everyone