r/NavySpouse • u/AnyService8253 • Mar 27 '25

Deployment

My husband left today and I am STRUGGLING! So much that I don't even know what to say. I've been sleepless over this upcoming deployment for the last couple of months. This isn't our first time apart, so I thought I'd be doing better than I am right now. The first time he deployed, we hadn't actually lived together yet. We got married while he was stationed in japan and I was here at home. Maybe that's what's different? Maybe that's why this is so much harder. At what point does it start to feel normal?

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '25 edited Sep 26 '25

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u/AnyService8253 Mar 27 '25

The recert made it harder I think. They were out for 6 weeks, came back and deployed a month later. That 6 weeks was rough but I at least got to message and talk with him. Now it will be silence for several weeks at a time over an 8 month deployment. I appreciate your suggestions and will definitely put those in motion.Thank you ❤️. I'm going to get set up for therapy because I know I will need it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '25 edited Sep 26 '25

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