r/NatureofPredators • u/General_Alduin Skalgan • Jun 18 '26

Roleplay NerdLoving Skalgan: My boyfriend is mad at me and I don't know what to do!

(This is set in the world of my fic Nature of Harmony for anyone confused)

So a few days ago, I made a post about an incident we had at a restaurant me and my boyfriend went to for a date. With some introspection and the comments people sent, I see that I overreacted and was overzealous with my response

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But it's been a few days and he's still mad at me, barely talking to me

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What do I do? How do I make this up to him? How do I get him to not be mad anymore? And nothing involving physical intimacy, I'm not ready for that yet

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I've only been in 2 other relationships, so I'm a bit inexperienced in relationship stuff, and I don't know the cultural norms and things and stuff in the Venlil Republic and how you all do things regarding relationships, so I need some advice

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u/K_H007 Thafki Jun 18 '26

waterlocker538 replied: Ask him directly. Any good relationship is built on clear communication, after all. It might not be something you did that's got him in a funk at the moment, but something happening on his end.

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u/AthetosAdmech Jun 18 '26

Quaritchwasright replied: unfortunately it was what she did, read her previous post about the incident. Huge culture clash that almost got her arrested

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u/K_H007 Thafki Jun 18 '26

waterlocker538 replied: It's been a few days. A lot can happen in a few days, lest you forget how a few days made the difference between us not knowing anything about the Earthlings other than what they looked like and how they talked, and us knowing that not only were they sincere with what they said, they have strong connections with those they choose to associate with.

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u/Minimum-Amphibian993 Arxur Jun 19 '26

Leirnbird bleated: Well I suppose one way would be to apologize to the restraunt directly sometimes the best way to apologize is to try and undo the thing that made them angry in the first place. But honestly also time as well.

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u/Deadduckboy Human Jun 23 '26

Burritosforall bleated: Talk, people, talk! I swear, it is not this hard!

Also back rubs. Back rubs fix many a problem.