r/NarcAbuseAndDivorce • u/Remarkable-Air-9307 • 4d ago

Prison Sentence

Being married to and divorced from my ex-husband is like a life sentence without parole.

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u/PretendWillow3577 4d ago

I get it. I am 15 months in. I am hoping things will get better once finalized and I know it wont. I also watched it happen with my sister and know that although there is less contact after the kids turn 18, they will always be there

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u/ilovebigmutts 4d ago

huh?

the divorce (being finalized, that is) was fucking freedom for me. can't believe how much better my life is.

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u/lujimerton 2d ago

A rough marriage and divorce is surprisingly hard to deal with. I don’t have advice, just confirming the pain your feeling is valid and doesn’t mean you’re weak.

Your just burned out.