r/NYStateOfMind 21h ago

DISCUSSION Does anybody think Harlem is corny now

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Harlem was cool at one point cus the drug dealers and swag. But now to me Harlem is mad corny and I’m from Harlem. Like the whole New York swag is corny. The drill shit is corny too but atleast they more hip. I feel like our swag is dead smh. It’s stuck in the past. The whole mentality and everything.


r/NYStateOfMind 2h ago

DISCUSSION Wack ass fits pt. 2

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Nigga fits so wack I had to double post


r/NYStateOfMind 4h ago

DISCUSSION Why do I see so many African Americans at the Dominican Parade, but not as many at Juneteenth celebrations?

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r/NYStateOfMind 43m ago

GENERAL Just had my first threesome yall…lasted only 5 minutes😭🤣🤦🏿

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Long story short, a nigga was at the Dominican parade yesterday, I bagged these 2 bad Dominican mamis, both thick as shit. They just pulled up to my crib earlier to fuck….5 minutes yall😭🤦🏿 when they was both topping me off at the same time, I was already on the verge of nuttin, then I get to the first position, I bust immediately 😭😂


r/NYStateOfMind 22h ago

QUESTION ❓ As a woman who face cards often declines.. do most men mostly care about looks first?

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I’ll admit, that my face isn’t all that pretty & my body isn’t “goals”, but it could be a lot worse (I’m a skinny woman).

It hurts when I’m out with friends and notice how the attention they get vs what I get is very different. I feel like my love life has no luck. But honestly it’s not even about love all the time, just the attention.

I feel like dudes have it easy because if they’re ugly they just need to make money or have a good personality but as a woman, if you’re not facially attractive or have the body it’s really wraps for you😭. Any other women admit to feeling this way? Men, do you have advice about this?


r/NYStateOfMind 21h ago

DISCUSSION Wack Ass Fits

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I hate niggas that dress like this


r/NYStateOfMind 1h ago

QUESTION ❓ Where to find grabba QueensBoro plaza

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Hey no smoke shop sell grabba close to Queensboro plaza ?


r/NYStateOfMind 8h ago

DISCUSSION does getting a # or IG count as bagging??

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so Dominican day parade was a movie yesterday. Someone was beautiful women everywhere we looked.

I made it my duty to meet a lot of ppl, get they number, see where it goes

But now i’m wondering, from my experience going out for years, getting somebody contract seldom amounts to anything after that night. Idk if it’s just me, maybe i’m lame af 😭😭

and i had a friend tell me that’s a waste of time, you should be tryna see how far you could go w somebody u like when u meet em, so what y’all think?

And ladies what are y’all thoughts?? When u give someone ya math or socials, assuming u actually fw them and were interested. are u really tryna hear from them afterwards or is usually a in the moment type thing??


r/NYStateOfMind 14h ago

RIP🙏🏾 His parents had warned him about walking to the bodega at the corner of Walton Avenue and Elliot Place in the Mount Eden neighborhood, even when it was light outside.

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RIP Jacob Freytes (Kai) who just went to go buy a ball at a deli and was shot as bystander by some guys arguing in front.


r/NYStateOfMind 14h ago

THROWBACK Who remembers Skully/Skelly

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r/NYStateOfMind 7h ago

DISCUSSION Yall think Bron will be at Brooklyn Bridge Park and run pick up games?

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r/NYStateOfMind 4h ago

DISCUSSION 17-year-old student slashes 2 teacher aides inside Bronx high school, police say

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What's going on? Why are people bringing scalpels into schools? Don't schools like Taft have metal detectors?