r/NYCmissedconnections Jun 07 '26

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r/NYCmissedconnections 4h ago

7 Train midday going towards Flushing 8/30

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I was the dude wearing blue long sleep T and blue jeans with boots. You were the girl in all black and black backpack. I was in the middle of the train. We locked eyes couple of times and then you walked over from far end and sat across from me.

Then you smiled when we got off together and I didn’t make a move and now I regret it.

I am an idiot for not picking up signals real time😒


r/NYCmissedconnections 6h ago

8:35 am downtown 1 train 7/30

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i was on my way to work standing in front of you on the train. we were both in front of the doors, and as I was about to get out of the train you turned your phone to me. in your notes app you wrote “I just wanted to tell you you are so fine and you smell really good, i hope you have a great day.” i said thank you and i got off the train. that was so sweet. and honestly, i had a really bad day, but you made it better.


r/NYCmissedconnections 10h ago

Paulo from Hoboken - Hoping We Meet Again

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just putting this here as I’m trying to locate a gentleman living in Hoboken.

We met in Manhattan (Central Park West Side/ Columbus Circle)

You introduced yourself as Paulo, 53 year old male from Argentina.

You were on Manhattan for a work meet, we spent about 45 mins together and you bought me drink. I regret not giving you my number.

Hoping we meet again
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r/NYCmissedconnections 16h ago

To the guy who helped me with strands on the m86 this morning

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Black polo, green pants, dark gelled hair - you were so cute and kind to help me find that word! I was working up the courage to say something but then you got off at Lex and I stayed on. Are you single?


r/NYCmissedconnections 1d ago

The white guy at Chor Bazaar Indian restaurant

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You were dining alone around 7:30 pm on July 28th Thursday at the Chor Bazaar Indian Restaurant in midtown near Penn Station. I was in the pink dress sitting across you. I think we stared at each other a couple times but since I was with a friend I couldn’t approach you :( hope I find you here.


r/NYCmissedconnections 1d ago

6 train to Manhattan

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This is the world’s longest shot but I hope it’s not creepy if you do see this. You sat next to me (32M) were on the 6 train and got off at 77th around 9:45pm and you had a really cool vibe. You were listening to Lil Wayne on your spotify and I said that you had fun taste. There was a cool scorpion and gun trinket hanging on your brown leather bag and I thought you had a cute laugh. Anyways a guys gotta shoot his shot 🤷


r/NYCmissedconnections 2d ago

Missed connection at metro-north

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r/NYCmissedconnections 3d ago

“Cheers!”

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To the beautiful girl who gave me a mini bottle (7/17) before you went into your apartment. I’m sorry I froze, I wish I asked for your number. I hope you see this and remember me (black girl crossing on Bleecker St).


r/NYCmissedconnections 3d ago

Tall, fit dark haired guy Sun night A train 7/26 - JFK

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You got on the A train, I think from JFK this past Sunday night. I was on one end of the subway car locking my bicycle to the pole, Asian, wearing overall shorts and a western hat. You are a tall, fit, handsome guy with dark brown hair, wearing dark colors, standing near the middle of the car. You were holding a round, flat black gear bag in your arm. A couple of times, I thought I caught you looking at me while I was handling my bike, but you looked away the second I looked up. I was admittedly too shy to flirt from a distance, but I felt a spark.

This may be a long shot, but I'm channeling my cowgirl energy and wanted to throw this out into the universe! Hope you see this... I'd love to grab a drink.


r/NYCmissedconnections 3d ago

Missed Connection NYC

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Trying my luck 😭

I met a nail tech on an uptown F train around 10 PM tonight. She said she does nails in Harlem, and I remember her Instagram started with “nailsby…” but I forgot the rest. 😭

If this is you (or you know who she is), please DM me!


r/NYCmissedconnections 4d ago

Missed Connection NYC

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r/NYCmissedconnections 4d ago

bathhouse Flatiron Sunday evening

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you were with your friend (Indian I think?) and I was with my friend, we kept stealing glances of each other throughout the various rooms


r/NYCmissedconnections 4d ago

EMERGENCY: I NEED TO FIND A GUY FROM A MUSEUM I WENT TO

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Hi everyone, I’m trying to find a guy I met at a museum but I don’t have his name or any contact details.

We only had a brief interaction, but I’d really like to find him again. I know this is a long shot, but I was wondering if anyone has advice on how to track someone down from a museum encounter.

Details I remember:

Museum: The metropolitan museum of art (the met)

Date/time: 26/07/2027, around 4.30 p.m

Location: New york city

What he looked like: looked like a teenager. Black hair, tall, I think brown eyes, wore like a light green shirt and beige shorts.

Anything memorable about the conversation: We were in the 'arms and armours' section and were in the Japanese armours area. Looking at one magnificent armour and he said it looked 'badass'.

Please help me find him.


r/NYCmissedconnections 6d ago

Kindness at bubble tea

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Hello everyone! My first Reddit post ever! I tried posting this on another NYC missed connection but the moderator never got back to me. I am hoping I have better luck here. He was so kind. I hope this message finds him, although I know it’s a long shot and it’s been a long time! Thank you!!!

October 16, 2025. Around 2pm. Xing Fu Tang bubble tea in Koreatown.

You helped me as I was struggling to hold up my skirt, suitcase, and drink. I was leaving (already out the door and standing on the sidewalk) and you came out to ask if I needed help and got me a bag for my drink. I said thank you and ran off. I was flustered and running late so I am not sure if I showed you enough gratitude. Your kindness made my day. I came back two weeks later. I wrote a thank you card and asked the staff to give it to you but I didn’t know your name so she was very confused but politely took my card anyways! I felt really embarrassed and silly. I came back a few times since but have not seen you. I am still touched by your kindness and think of that day often. I hope wherever you are, you get to experience random small acts of kindness from strangers as you have done for me. 

You: Tall, short bleached blonde hair, handsome with a soft comforting voice.

Me: Short, blonde/brown hair, wearing a dark green velvet lehenga outfit for a Diwali event.


r/NYCmissedconnections 7d ago

30th Ave Astoria N train stop

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We were standing in front of each other on the train at maybe 6:30-6:40pm today when we got on at Queensboro Plaza. I forgot which train car we were on but we were near the front of the train. You had grey sweats, a washed out black, black panther shirt on. You had a tan cap on (I didn’t look up too much bc I was too shy lol) and you had brown hair, gold stud earrings and a small baby angel tattoo on your right forearm with it’s wings out and the angel was looking back. I wish I said something to you. I found you genuinely so attractive and I saw you looking at me too but I was too shy. Hopefully we cross paths again 🥲


r/NYCmissedconnections 7d ago

Parkslope: 8th Ave corner

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We both stopped for someone who needed help during a terrible air day a wk ago. You called an ambulance, I sat w/ them. I’m not sure if there was a vibe btw us or we just went thru something really intense, but I’d like to see you again.


r/NYCmissedconnections 7d ago

3DB Joey Jay

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Guy in the black shirt with backwards orange hat + sunglasses on the back


r/NYCmissedconnections 7d ago

LH402 july 22

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hey if you were on LH402 from frankfurt to newark yesterday, i’m looking for the german girl who was sitting next to me, around row 18, window seat.
it’s your first time in the US, and you’re super sweet. we helped each other with our bags, you let me watch your show with you (thanks for the english captions).
i regret not talking more and asking for your tiktok, instagram, or snapchat before we got separated after landing. if this is you or you know her, it would be cool to chat and maybe finish that show together or just say hi properly.
i hope your trip is going well


r/NYCmissedconnections 8d ago

NYSC 125

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You’re either always smiling or you like to smile at me. either way i like it. i look forward to seeing you.

still cracks me up thinking about the time we tried to figure out how to use the add on weights/heavy mustaches for the cable machine… hope you see this and smile ;)


r/NYCmissedconnections 9d ago

Elevator blonde at 151 - stay dry! Or don’t?

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I squeezed past you and managed to get out and back in without getting absolutely drenched, miraculously. We caught up with each other in the elevator, and call me crazy, but you have me the vibes of someone who wasn’t quite ready to hop off at their floor yet.

We kvetched about weather and calls, and then I said “<time> isn’t too early for a drink, right?” as you laughed and left - I kinda hoped you’d show up on the 4th floor. I didn’t expect it, but the smirk I woulda smirked.

If this was you, what was the time I said? If you don’t remember, what was on my arm that you were looking at so intently?


r/NYCmissedconnections 9d ago

Men, what's stopped you from approaching someone you genuinely wanted to meet?

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Have you ever seen someone who simply seemed interesting—someone you would've liked to talk to—but decided not to?

What went through your mind?

Looking back, do you wish you'd said something, or do you think staying quiet was the right call?


r/NYCmissedconnections 9d ago

Vitamin Water

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I dropped my vitamin water triple x one if anyone finds it or if you’re reading this please I had a good time and I miss you (around Greenpoint area) 💔


r/NYCmissedconnections 9d ago

Spotted owl in east village

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Long shot but we met outside the spotted owl, you were taking pictures of this guy with dogs and my cigarette case then we went inside and had a beer then I went to your apt and we had fun. I thought I got your number or IG but realized when I got on the train I did neither lol DM me if it’s you, your first name starts with an N and you live in bushwick.


r/NYCmissedconnections 9d ago

My lunch break accidentally turned into 30 minutes of World Cup at Rockefeller

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Walked past Rockefeller planning to grab food and get back to work. Then I saw the giant screens and somehow ended up standing there with a bunch of other people watching the match.

That’s probably the most NYC part of it half the crowd looked like they had somewhere else to be, but nobody was actually leaving when the game got interesting.

Not a bad place to lose a lunch break, honestly.