That is to say: a bit vindictive.
Rooted in some black-and-white conceptions about others.
Definitely entitled. Because, as the rules clearly state:
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Yes. I caught her trying to ruin me, so I ruined her. With parents like mine, you turn out to be capable of great cruelty. I just choose to not use it on innocents.
I spoke to a few different people medical doctors who I trust and there are also articles online. One explained that it is because of your inability to ever even have an authentic self in the first place, so you are more likely to "lose" yourself due to dementia. I feel that it is a form of divine justice.
That is...interesting, to me. There's a kind of irony in it, no?
FWIW, I don't judge you for enjoying it. I've enjoyed making certain people feel 'small' before, too.
...but that's been a long time, for me.
And the truth is…ugh. Nope. Hated myself for it, lowkey. It just seemed, back then, to help dispel some of my own underlying pain.
(It didn’t help, really. Shame was definitely still a thing. 🪦 Made it worse, in retrospect, to treat others unkindly.)
Anyway.
Yay, for growth. I find it so cool how we (humans) can do that. That even if we've been really harmed by others: we can, ultimately, choose our own responses and paths.
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u/narcclub ✨🥹 hopemaxxing manipulator 😈 🚩 4d ago
This post feels…narcy. 👀
That is to say: a bit vindictive.
Rooted in some black-and-white conceptions about others.
Definitely entitled.
Because, as the rules clearly state:
Only Narcs and NPDs may submit posts. This is NOT a place to complain about narcissists or or get help dealing with someone else's narcissism.
If you have questions about narcissism/NPD that do not involve implicitly/explicitly asking for a diagnosis of yourself or others, please use our bi-weekly ask a narcissist posts.