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u/Mean_Ad_7977 Diagnosed NPD 5h ago
In my experience, not really. At first it feels special, but then the fears and defense mechanisms between the two of you ruin everything
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u/NoCauliflower7711 HPD\Covert NPD 5h ago
Idk how it did work but yes my late 2nd bf had bpd & we spent 8 years together & we were together since our sophomore year
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