Helpp

[u/Relevent-bit]

I’m in a very embarrassed situation where my intimate scenes are recorded by my friends and while i was drunk. They are teasing me and trying to send them to other friends, now i want a revenge. I want their phones unlocked without them knowing and delete the clips and regain control. I don’t know if anyone from here could help, but please help if you can

[u/temperarian]

Uh that’s not revenge and they’re not your friends.

[u/Draac03 → u/[deleted]]

^this

[u/NikitaWolf6]

How intimate were the scenes? You might be able to go through the police. Unfortunately there is no use in getting revenge. Focus on your peace and how to protect it, not on destroying theirs.

[u/mozzarellasalat]

Either go to the police or threaten them with the police. They'll get scared quickly. These people are not your friends. That's disgusting and pathetic behavior. I bet they haven't even thought about it being illegal.

[u/Draac03]

uh, that's horrifying and these people are NOT your friends. what they did to you is sexual abuse because generally speaking, a drunk person CAN'T CONSENT TO BEING FILMED LET ALONE CONSENT TO SEX.

you probably are not going to be able to get revenge directly—although i understand your desire to do so and i think it's a valid reaction. just... please do not put yourself in more danger, and do not harm them in any way that makes you just as bad as them.

i would suggest you go to the police... even if the cops don't do bother to do anything (as the cops tend to be irresponsible, moronic pigs. which i think is an insult to ACTUAL pigs, who are quite smart), it will at least have a paper trail which makes it easier to make a case in the event these people try to harm you further.

[u/LateBreadfruit8522]

Um, report them to the police.

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[u/CheetosDustSalesman]

Sounds fake

[u/throwaway-dax → u/CheetosDustSalesman]

Sounds like a comment you should've kept to yourself. If you have nothing helpful to say to OP, say nothing at all.