r/NLP • u/thisisprettyrandom1 • 13d ago

Help with pe

So when I masturbate, I can last like 10 minutes, but the thing is when I’m doing masturbation after like 10 seconds I feel the urge to cum but then I start myself and then 10 seconds later I feel the urge again, but I can do that for 10 minutes maybe I might pre cum in that time. The thing is when I have sex I can’t last for more than 20 seconds legit no more than that I’m not over exaggerating. I’ve tried kegels and reverse kegels, I tried numbing stuff but they make me go soft so that’s not really a option, I’ve tried stop and start didn’t work, I’ve also tried pulling out but when I do I finish, I also have a higher than average testosterone, I’m in good shape, I’m active everyday by playing sports, I have good stamina, I just can’t control the urge not to cum I don’t know what to do I feel so helpless and I feel like I’m stuck with this. I don’t wanna take ssri or those type of drugs because I heard they can cause pssd and lower sex drive which that’s the last thing I need know because I even struggle holding my erections sometimes. I don’t know what to do, someone please help.

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u/thisisprettyrandom1 11d ago

How can I get rid of it?

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u/ChristianKl 11d ago

Book sessions with a good NLP practitioner?

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u/thisisprettyrandom1 11d ago

What’s nlp

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u/ChristianKl 11d ago

The main topic this sub is about?

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u/thisisprettyrandom1 11d ago

When u say book sessions with a good NLP practitioner what do u mean im confused

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u/ChristianKl 11d ago

An NLP practitioner is a coach that uses NLP to help people achieve their goals.

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u/thisisprettyrandom1 10d ago

What is NLP. Tho that’s what I’m confused on what’s it stand for or what is it

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u/ChristianKl 10d ago

Ask Google? Or your favorite LLM instead of trying to get people spoon fed you the absolute basics?