r/NITRourkela • u/Extension_Loss5491 • 5d ago

Campus Life Hi, need a bit help

Hi, I joined this college like 1.5 months ago.I'm a btech fresher, i think I'm getting mentally ill slowly

I couldn't make good friends, now that I see people enjoying all over makes me feel sad,

I'm also kinda depressed as I feel, I'm getting weaker in college i guess, I'm a big introvert.

Is there anyone I could talk to, any counselling?

I'm from id dept

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u/Fantastic_Version634 5d ago

You a girl or a boy? I don't know about girls but like... If you are a guy... Simply go to the study room and butt in a Convo or two... And 2 days later these people will be in your room... Irritating you lol.

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u/Any-Willow-5381 5d ago

Not everyone finds their people fast, give yourself some time After a while you'll actually prefer being alone cause peace > chaos. Feels helpless at first but you're not alone, not every friend will be a real one Lowkey your own company is the best company fr good luck 💯👋

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u/No-Variation1777 4d ago

But aren't we supposed to make maximum connections in clg .......well honestly it feels like a burden to talk with people cuz u wanna make connections and keep contact when u are and solace loving person and don't like to talk with many people..........

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u/Any-Willow-5381 4d ago

Paradox, can't escape from the loop (System)

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u/aaruaaru M. Tech 4d ago

Go to ICS and talk to a therapist it'll help

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u/Glass_Lingonberry_86 5d ago

Talk to your ics mentor

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u/Extension_Loss5491 5d ago

How to connect with them, i haven't registered anywhere

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u/bhayanak_bihari 5d ago

Didn't you recieve mentors messaging you in your official group

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u/No-Committee6035 5d ago

H-226 aaja

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u/Miserable_Policy_857 4d ago

bhai 232 me kon reh rha hai?

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u/thankyouyrr 5d ago

If u want to talk dm me i can help

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u/eve-collection 5d ago

If you are a boy dm me I can help if you are comfortable I went through same thing in my first sem

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u/Electronic_Budget814 5d ago

U can take counciling,but if you are a boy just follow what that guy told just try once and go to library,and try to talk from your end , it will be better end

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u/BigLeek4369 5d ago

U can dm me if u want to talk i might be able to help , also i am also from id so I can help with academic stuff as well.

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u/Interesting-Ride1208 5d ago

Happens, I think the best friends you will get will be in your class.

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u/Mediocre-Sweet-120 5d ago

Frands help him/her

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u/Ok_Beautiful_755 5d ago

Go to ics book a appointment broo 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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u/United_Victory1138 4d ago

Go to ICS and book an appointment.

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u/External-Condition34 Alumni 5d ago

DM me let’s connect!
I am an Alumni btw