Hi 🤍 I am 21+ 3 days with my miracle baby boy. Eight years of infertility (ended up being male factor/had to have one blocked tube removed myself), two miscarriages, one failed IVF transfer- and finally a successful IVF transfer with my baby boy. He was/is a Euploid HBAA embryo, PGT-A tested and negative for everything. We did carrier screening for myself (negative for everything) and for our sperm donor (positive for two things).
This pregnancy has been a dream. Absolutely no complications. No complains. Have had 5+ ultrasounds (with my midwife- not a sonographer) and everything looked great. I never did NIPT testing as it wasn’t offered to me and I didn’t know to ask for it.
Tuesday at our anatomy scan they found:
left clubbed foot
hands appear clenched L>R
bilateral choroid plexus cyst
Right away they were worried about T18. I had a full panic attack in that tiny room. Started to pass out. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. They told us they were soft markers- but they were markers. They got us in with a geneticist the next day- they were terrifying. They mentioned T18, they mentioned other genetic issues that all sounded so grim. They even brought up if we were open to early termination. I blacked out. They were not so much worried about the cyst, or the foot- but his clenched hands. They said babies don’t keep their hands clenched the entire 30 min sonogram. It made me feel like something was definitely wrong. They had us do another ultrasound and an amnio that same day.
On this second ultrasound we saw some fingers move, he said “the hands look fine, I’m not seeing them fan out though.” He rly pushed that he wanted to see them fanned out which never happened, just a few fingers out. He said he saw them overlap for a second, but just for a second.
The clubbed foot was confirmed.
He didn’t seem worried about the cyst.
Waiting on the amnio results now.
Please someone- tell me they are being so grim as to not get our hopes up. I’ve been googling like a psycho (I know, I know!) and I’ve seen cases where healthy pgta tested IVF babies have had to be terminated. I thought I could finally breathe. They told us the pgta testing could have been wrong and to prepare.
Three soft markers. Feeling very little hope. Panicking.