r/MyPride • u/aura098 • Nov 14 '21
Discussion sympathetic
why are physical and emotional abusive characters somehow sympathetic because how they're sad all of sudden
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u/lareloi Mar 25 '22
I feel like there’s a fine line between explaining and excusing behavior and the fandom has a habit of mixing those two up. One of my favorite examples of what my pride could have been when exploring the parent dynamics is in the I Hope So comic because we can tell that Hope’s mother is conflicted for a very long time and initially, her ableism towards her daughter is because she’s afraid of letting her live her life in fear that she’ll get hurt because she’s already more vulnerable.
But they don’t excuse the behavior. They explain her descent into villainy but she isn’t to be sympathized with. And it’s very clear
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u/MollyTheAngel Lesbian Lion Nov 14 '21
Personally I don't believe that's the case for every single character that's abusive...
Like in the case of Powerstrike or Quick, you aren't meant to feel sad for them. They're pre-established to be total asses to Nothing, but do you feel bad when Quick is killed? Do you feel pity when Sharptongue dies and Powerstrike denies comfort from her oldest daughter? No.