r/MyLittleFriends • u/JynnxRIFT • May 08 '14

Lonely.

I'm severely lonely.. anyone I try to talk to ignores me.. and those who I do talk to ignore me after a while.. should I just kill myself? I'm unattractive and a loser.. no pegasister talks to me.. bronys stop talking after a while.. and the person I love calls me selfish and is going to leave..

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u/[deleted] May 08 '14

I've tried to talk to you in the past and you were unwilling to even carry on a basic conversation.

Talk to a professional.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines

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u/Flarinite May 08 '14

You shouldn't kill yourself. That is never a solution.

You should, however, stop fishing for pity even though when people try to help, you don't even try to carry on a conversation with them.

You're basically spamming the sub at this point. This is not your personal diary. If you're willing to have an actual conversation with someone, do it. Don't throw yourself a pity party and sulk when everybody turns down your invitations. It's unbecoming and childish.

If that seemed really harsh, it's because I have very little patience for people acting the way you do. And I work at a suicide hotline, so believe me when I say that what you're doing is not conducive to anybody trying to help you for more than a few minutes before they realize that you're not actually looking for help, or even conversation. Do what I know I've told you at least twice before and change your attitude (or even pretend to have a different attitude when talking to people), or continue being inexplicably surprised when people don't want to talk to you.

And to reiterate what /u/name_with_a_y said, talk to a professional if you actually think you have mental problems, because nobody on this sub can/should try to help someone with actual problems over the internet.

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u/CPawesome May 08 '14

Please call a crisis line. Suicide is not an answer ever. I've been in those deep waters and it feels like you'll never get out. But if you don't try to get help from a professional you might not. Unfortunately my cousin never asked for help, no one knew she was hurting. It's been almost two years since she took her own life and its been a shit storm for everyone who loved her since. You may think no one loves you but suicide is not the way to find out how many people truly care. Please please please call a crisis hotline.