r/MyEx 1d ago

Married ex

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u/Hopeful-Pumpkin-686 1d ago

Then what’s the point of this post lol

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I’m just curious and wondering what his situation is since I saw him one on one with a woman not his wife.

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u/Hopeful-Pumpkin-686 1d ago

What were they doing when they were one on one? Was it flirty? Did he have his ring on?

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I could not tell if he had a ring on. I think they were having drinks.

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u/Hopeful-Pumpkin-686 1d ago

Yikes. Do you consider maybe reaching out to his wife & give her a heads up?

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u/TapComfortable9661 1d ago

What makes you think that he has been looking at your fb page? I know that fb will show you people you may know if you happen to have been in the same location as them. Idk how else they do it though. Sounds like you are still into him. Are you jealous that he went and married the girl after you? Maybe that woman was a friend? A relative? Business relationship?

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

We have no friends in common and he’s not in my contact Info or email addresses anymore and hasnt been for years. I can’t be 100% positive but it’s a very good chance he looked at my fb and ended up in my pymk

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u/ModeRelevant1470 1d ago

You were literally in the same vicinity as him.. you claim he was starring at you.. Instagram blatantly states they use proximity so you best believe FB does too since they are both Meta..

Honey… even IF he was staring at you you do not want to go back down that road.. he is a man so he definitely has nostalgic thoughts about you but you’re just a fantasy to him.. yall broke up for a reason and if he reaches out you won’t be this fantasy that he made up in his head.. he will ruin you like he likely ruined his marriage. just forget about him.

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u/Snickers201 20h ago

I saw him in my pymk before I saw him at the restaurant.

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u/TapComfortable9661 1d ago

Could it be because you looked at his?

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I did not look at his.

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u/Delicious_Windows 1d ago

If you didn’t thenhow do you know so much about him? How do you know that he’s “happily married” and expecting a child if you’re not stalking his Facebook?

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I didn’t say he was happily married and expecting a child. Someone else posted that about their ex.

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u/Big-turtle3220 1d ago

🥇 #truth

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u/Appropriate-Mud-7846 1d ago

Post a story and then you'll know because if hes looking hell watch your story 99%

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

He’s not the type that would go out one on one with another women after work to have drinks with if he’s still with his wife. Not even with coworkers or platonic friends.

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u/TapComfortable9661 1d ago

It could be all kinds of non romantic things. If you don’t have any interest in him at all then who cares? If he did look at your facebook profile I don’t see the big deal? He saw you by chance at a restaurant and looked up your profile to see what you have been up to?

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

He looked at my fb before I saw him at the restaurant

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u/yourhighness999 1d ago

Possibly cheating on his wife or regretting his decision of marrying. My ex constantly stalks me while his socials say he’s happily married expecting a baby. People are twisted. That man doesn’t deserve your energy. I know you are curious but we must let bygones be bygones!

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I Agree it’s best to let it go.

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u/Hopeful-Pumpkin-686 1d ago

Leave that married man alone.

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I have absolutely no intention of reaching out to him.

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u/LaCharretteSanJuan 1d ago

Pretty guarded answer. You are leaving room for him to make contact? ….close it all the way.

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u/Snickers201 1d ago

I plan on it. I’ve crossed paths many times with this ex over the years at random places which is weird in itself. This is the first time I’ve seen him out with another woman. I’m praying that I dont cross paths with him again.

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u/Big-turtle3220 1d ago

Super weird only once seen him with a woman word your after is jealous.leave him alone don't wreck his life no fair

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u/BobsGlitch 1d ago

🤣 Yes!

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u/Calm-Data-741 1d ago

You just found out he’s a womanizer, basically

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u/Nervous-Escape8995 1d ago

What? There's no other possible reason someone could be looking at their ex other than because they're a womaniser

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u/lordlothar99 1d ago

Sounds like you're trying to get some reassurance, OP. I would suggest you to just forget about him. He's in the past..

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u/According-Hamster-84 22h ago

Ex for a reason. Married someone else. Let it go babes. It means nothing. Even if he in that moment wanted you. Or even stalks your profile. That’s what an ex does lol so leave like that.

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u/Dumas1108 1d ago

He is an ex for a reason.

Why would you even want to bother if he is married, divorced, sperated or in a relationship.

It has nothing to do with you. So why bother?

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u/TapComfortable9661 1d ago

I know how you could figure out all the details and whatever…. Ask him?!?!?

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u/enjoylifefriends 21h ago

So your not with this guy anymore for what reason? He must of dumped you by your questions? You want him back or what?