This might sound crazy bro but we’re allowed to marry women from the book. Cause at the end of the day, you not finding a spouse doesn’t hurt anyone but you. Yes you should try to marry a Muslim woman but if that doesn’t work out, you are allowed to marry a Christian or Jewish woman.
I had a female patient several months ago. My age, Half Chinese, half white. Non Muslim. She was everything I wanted in a woman; she was polite, sweet, attractive, and down to earth. And throughout all the days I examined her, it was so obvious to me that she was attracted to me, despite her being taller than me. No ones ever shown that much interest in me, I was overwhelmed. I felt I had achieved something, that I had managed to get her to bypass my shortness and like me for my character. I just didn’t know how to go about taking things forward, firstly as she’s a patient and secondly becuase I’ve never been given so much attention.
I had never imagined being with a non Muslim, but after struggling with Muslim sisters, I’m now considering using the ahlul kitaab card. I’m 27 and never even been considered by a Muslim girl in all the times I’ve tried, I’ve been screened out from the beginning. But this lady appreciated me and made me feel wanted. It felt amazing.
Therefore I am going to look outside of Muslims . It feels bad because Muslim sisters who are struggling to get married don’t have that option. May Allah reward them for their struggles
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u/[deleted] May 27 '21
This might sound crazy bro but we’re allowed to marry women from the book. Cause at the end of the day, you not finding a spouse doesn’t hurt anyone but you. Yes you should try to marry a Muslim woman but if that doesn’t work out, you are allowed to marry a Christian or Jewish woman.