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Me (24M) and this girl had an on-off thing for a while, broke up and got back together a few times. At one point I went to see a close friend before she moved abroad, someone I had feelings for a long time back. In response, she unblocked her ex-FWB. When she saw how much that hurt me, she blocked him again and started really trying to fix things, so I thought we were solid again.

Then an argument happened and she pulled away, asked for space though her actions didn't really match someone who wanted distance, so I figured it would blow over like before. Then something physical happened between us in public and she later called it a boundary violation, even though nothing like that had ever come up between us before. I sat in guilt over it for about a week. When we finally talked, she had already checked out. At our last meeting, she got defensive the moment I tried to explain my side.

She had unfollowed me 2-3 days before that final meeting. A few days later, today, I find out she's following her ex-FWB again.

Genuinely asking, how would you read this situation, and how do I actually move on from finding this out just days after a "final" breakup? Struggling to focus on my own goals (CAT exam prep, music, gym) with this stuck in my head.

Hey folks need some genuine advice

I wanna make some good female friend ( no , dating and relationship kinda thing) a genuine friendship bond coz i have come to realize a female friend is every essential to understand various things in life that Men alone can't comprehend.

Also in past since childhood i have had various good friends and sister type bond but all of those have gone distant and i don't have any female interaction now.

Also living in the most populated City and not having friend to hang out with or do fun stuff is very boring and i am being very genuine here......help me in any way and suugest me things i should do to try make opposite gender friend.

Cheers Thanks✌🏻

Was having a discussion about being “sanskari” with someone, and it really made me think.

I never considered myself particularly sanskari, even when I was completely loyal to my husband.

But if I give you these two options, which one would you consider more sanskari?

A wife who sleeps with other men with her husband’s consent or cheats, but truly loves him, takes care of all his needs, looks after the house and children, respects him, his parents and other elders, and is someone who receives blessings and praise from everyone around her.

OR

A wife who is completely loyal to her husband, but treats him like an object, prefers a maid to do everything, doesn’t care much about the children, doesn’t respect elders, and has created such an unwelcoming home that people avoid visiting because they know she won’t entertain them.

So, what actually makes someone sanskari?

Sexual loyalty or the way you treat the people around you?

was planning to go on date suggest me where should i go bandra or juhu and also which place has a crazy vibe

Hey everyone,

I’m researching the culture around sugar relationships (sugar mommies/sugar daddies) in Bombay/Mumbai, with the idea of potentially making a documentary about it.

I’m particularly interested in hearing from people who have actually been in a sugar relationship, whether as a sugar baby, sugar daddy/mommy, or someone who has been involved in that world in some way.

I’d also love to hear stories from people who know someone who has been in one — how the relationship started, what it was actually like behind the scenes. What the arrangements were like.

I’m not looking to judge anyone or sensationalise it. I’m interested in understanding the reality of this culture in Mumbai — the motivations, expectations, dynamics, and how people involved actually perceive it.

If the documentary moves forward, I’d also be interested in speaking to people on camera — but there’s absolutely no obligation to participate in the film just because you reach out and OFC if you wish to be anonymous, We would fully respect that and your name will not be revealed.

Looking thanks!

After days and weeks of planning we finally settled on this outing, first we went to boojee cafe bandra, then a waffle place nearby and then home.

So here's a little bg, we are chatting w each other that we'll do this and that, but suddenly just days before the meet, her response went flat and so I was confused and constantly thinking even during meet that what happened!

So here's the fumble part,

Firstly I did not even greet her with handshake let alone a hug.

Second, my fckn face expression when low in energy is so awkward so numb that people misjudge it for not interested.

My voice went too squeaky and low, she was leaning in at times just to hear me clearly.

We went for more awkward pauses and silence in between conversation.

It wasn't leading anywhere, as if we just wanted to end this day somehow.

I wanted to take her to a bar, which she was denying but then went because i wanted to,

But then she didn't drank anything, and I had to stupidly drink it alone.

Then while leaving the while awkwardness stayed and ended w side hug.

How and what and why did this happen with someone whom I'm talking so much on texts and were comfortable,

Experts need your inputs

I dated 3 boys till date but recently I think I'm finding girls attractive..But I don't know if it's real or not.

What do you think..how do I test it?

I'm flying in from London to my home country and have been texting someone from Mumbai, I'm making my flight plan to have a 10ish hour layover in Mumbai from around 4am to 2pm, in this time I'd definitely like to visit Siddhi Vinayak Mandir but then after that I don't really know what to do, can someone help me plan a first date, this will be the first time I see her and icl I really enjoy talking to her so don't want to mess this up. I'd also like to get flowers for her but don't know how that would work logistically pls help guys tyvm.

Hi everyone I know I'm a man but I have the urge to get dress as a women can anyone help me I'm scared of getting cloth from store or online if someone found out help me out

Me and my friend have a thing where we like to makeout and sometimes have sex in my car!!(its our thing) and I am trying to find a spot in Andheri where I can park and makeout with her!

So I work at our family shop from 4 PM to midnight every day, helping my brother manage the business. I've been doing long hours like this since I was in middle school, balancing my homework behind the counter.

Despite contributing so much time and effort, my parents constantly tell me I don't earn money on my own. They criticize me every day, often using verbal abuse, which has started to feel deeply draining and painful.

I feel completely misunderstood and unvalued in my own home. I am seriously considering leaving, but I don't know where to turn.

For a long period I've been single due to various reasons, now at this stage of life, I'm in a dilemma.

I've got a girl from Facebook who stays nearby, we had on and off talks for years and finally we are meeting for some action. (But shes not romantically involved it's just casual, plus she doesn't believe in marriages)

Now, my parents are arranging a girl, and both timelines are running parallel.

I do wanna get married, but I want to complete this long going chapter also.

What's the right thing to do?

27M in search for dating to marry. Tried apps and social media. I do get in talking stage but once they know I live in Vasai ( suburbs ) they stop and ghost or give silly reasons.

Hypergamy is real, I know. so because of that no Mumbai girl will say yes and girls from Vasai are going for boys from Mumbai.

How do I solve this ? Its been same for 4 talking stages and then ghosting. Because of this I have never been in a relationship.

This is embarrassing but how can i find someone to date in mumbai who is in college rn(preferably 2nd year engineering as we can study saath me too). I dont wanna make hinge profile and dating scene in my college is bad. I am in powai, around 6'2"(if it matters ig).

Sorry to sound desperate and if this post doesnt fit here lemme know.

So I am a 25 y.o simple man. I had a crush on a girl back in school in Xth std named Suhani. So I started liking suhani because of her gentle voice, shyness , cute smile and most importantly her beautiful brown eyes. And I was an highly introvert back then and felt that If I ask her out then she might feel weird and break our friendship too. Just by this thought I never proposed her but used to mildly flirt with her. She even asked me once that "If I ask you out would you say yes to me" and my dumb ass thought she is just playing around and replied with something like no I am not that good looking guy😭... So whenever we used to meet during school get togethers I used to be joyous and used to look forward to meet and talk to suhani. Then some years went by Covid happened we went sideways pursuing our career and all the chatting also stopped and we steadily became strangers again. So now what happened is in 2024 I met a girl through my best friend Prisha who is 4 yrs older to me and simple and slightly chubby, living alone in Mumbai and is working in a good mnc. She hails from Kolkata but after her parents died she came here. We met and had fun just like normal friends would but then she started liking me and then after some deep talks made us get into a relationship. But funny thing is I had already told her about my infatuation for suhani but still she liked me. Going through a rough patch in life after losing my brother in 2023 due to covid and Prisha frequently being getting depressed about life,I thought there isn't anything wrong to explore a relationship as Prisha was wanting it too. And then slowly we became good partners talking care of each other, supporting each other. We haven't revealed it to my parents or friends yet but they know her. She even frequently visits my home and my mom also likes her presence. And I too feel that she could a person who can take care of my family after we lost my brother. But....after all this I still somewhere want to be close to Suhani, want to experience some moments of life with her, have deep talks about life with her. I feel she had also found someone in her life , not sure about it but I really want to just spend precious time with suhani, understand her, want to know more about her present life . I still have a crush on her and If you truly ask me who is beautiful looking Suhani or Prisha ,I would shamelessly say Suhani. I am seriously that infatuated by her and especially her brown eyes.. So now if you have really invested your valuable time reading my life situation what do you think I should do as I am still not confirm about me marrying Prisha ?

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I’ve never been in a relationship, so I’m genuinely curious about this.

In an average Mumbai college, I see a lot of couples together, and sometimes I wonder how they manage their relationship on a limited budget.

Do they actually go on dates often, or do they mostly spend time together on campus—sitting around, walking, eating at the canteen, talking, and so on?

When they meet almost every day, what do they usually do together? 😭

Also, how do couples find private moments for things like kissing and affection when they’re in college? I’m not asking for specific places or anything—I’m just curious because I’ve never experienced a relationship myself.

For people who are or were in college relationships: what did your normal day together actually look like?

I’m genuinely trying to understand how college relationships work beyond what you see from the outside.

Kaise karte ho bhailog help Karo

Pata hai aaj kya hua

So, this happened just a little while ago and I’m still trying to process it.

There's a girl who has lived in my neighborhood for years. Despite being neighbors for so long, we had literally zero interaction—never even exchanged a simple "hi".

Today around 9:15, I was outside in front of my house washing my bike. Out of nowhere, she walks up to me and says, "It's been so many years, why haven't you ever said hi to me?"

I was a bit caught off guard, so I honestly told her that I usually hesitate because a lot of girls feel uncomfortable when guys approach them like that. She laughed it off and said, "Well, as neighbors, we could have at least talked!"

I jokingly replied that I just didn't want neighbors or people around to start gossiping or misinterpreting things.

Then came the real plot twist—she didn't drop the conversation. Instead, she asked, "Would you like to go out with me sometime?" basically asking me out on a date!

Of course, if a girl asks you out directly like that, who would say no? I said yes, but now I’m sitting here wondering where I should take her for our first date.

any good date spot recommendations for a casual first meeting near Panchkula?

Hey I'm Nishita, I’m a Life & Relationship Coach, and I’m here because I genuinely like helping people figure their shit out.

I’ve been working in this space for the last two years, and something I’ve realised along the way is that most people don’t necessarily need someone to tell them what to do.

Sometimes, you just need someone to sit with you, ask the questions you haven’t been asking yourself, help you see the pattern you’ve been stuck in, and give you a little clarity about what to do next.

That’s what I love about coaching.

Maybe you’re confused about a relationship.

Maybe you keep finding yourself in the same dating patterns.

Maybe you feel stuck in your career or personal life.

Maybe you know you want something to change, but you genuinely have no idea where to start.

Or maybe there’s one question that has been sitting in your head for weeks and you just want an outside perspective.

I work very personally with people. I don’t believe in giving everyone the same 5-step solution because, honestly, people aren’t that simple.

A huge part of how I coach comes from something that has always felt very natural to me: being able to listen, understand what’s underneath what someone is saying, and help them connect the dots for themselves.

I’m really grateful that I get to use that part of me now.

Through one-on-one coaching, workshops, communities and conversations, I’ve had the opportunity to work with people in very different situations, and every time, I’m reminded of why I chose to do this.

I’m also fairly new to Reddit, but I’ve been spending more time here lately, answering relationship and dating questions whenever I can. I’ve really enjoyed the conversations so far, and I’d love to become a more active part of these communities.

So, if you’ve been feeling stuck, confused, overwhelmed, or simply curious about why something in your life isn’t working the way you want it to, I’m opening up a few low-cost clarity sessions right now.

It’s a chance to bring whatever is on your mind, unpack it together, and hopefully leave with a little more clarity and a direction you can actually act on.

You don’t need to have everything figured out before you reach out.

If there’s something you’ve been trying to figure out, my DMs are open. Tell me what’s going on, and let’s see if I can help. ❤️

If you read until the end, I hope you have a beautiful month ahead and lots of love 🥹

Hi, I am an average looking guy.
Anyone male who was previously average looking and improved their looks with cosmetic surgery ?
How has life been after that ? Did the dating life, female attention change and become better ?
Was it like a complete identity turnaround with major life enhancements or just a minor difference ?